should i be concerned about her sending him letters & calling?

you should feel proud that he considers you as the one that he can count on to be there for him, just dont let that turn into him walking all over you

Wow! You really think your hot stuff. You believe him when he tells you your sex is better than someone else's? That's the oldest line in the book! What he's doing is screwing a woman who lets him. that would be you and any other woman who'd let him. Now, that he's broken up with his last victim, he's looking for someone to get it from regularly. That would be you... for the time being. You're not confused. You're just unwilling to accept the obvious.

well, i wold be concerned because if he cheated on her what makes you think he isn't going to cheat on you? Maybe he does love you and wants to be with you so why would he even talk to her. I would set up my own rules bout talking to her n stuff not gonna happen if he wants to keep you. if you see him still in touch wit her after you've told him you didn't like it, leave him thats the best thing to do, if he really wants to be with you then it should mean nothin to him stop talkin to other girls, his ex especialy. Good luck n best wishes, you are worth more than that n u don't need his crap k

i am experianced with a man cheating on me---and thats almost as far as i will go with my story--as for you-- YES be very worried!!!!

<alright ok ill trust him--YEAH RIGHT! i find out he's kissed some ugly girl multiple times!> if he has cheated on you - or with you he will do it agian! get out and find a better man there are better men! trust me you do not want the pain and heart ache i went thru bc i wasnt sure- and didnt find out till it was too late! keep me posted girl and good luck to you!~

yes i think ,i would be concerned if she is still sending him letters and calling.

God your confused. What are you trying to say. please keep it short and simple so we have a chance to maybe understand