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Ladies... Please help me with this one:?

My fiancee has this classmate who has a thing for him. He has told her that he has a fiancee and not at all interested. He even brought me to his evening class once just so she can get the hint that he is simply taken and really NOT interested.. She is still persistent and very bothersome.. Just on a side note, we're college students so this isn't a highschool thing.. In fact I'm a college grad so this seems ridiclulous.. What, if anything do I do here? On another side note, the girl is butt freakin' unattractive.. not that it matters :-)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Get up close to her face and tell her to keep away or she is going to cop it real good. Tell her not to make a fool of herself. Isn't taking you to class hint enough? My gosh, there are biatches out there that just don't get it. If she doesn't back off, tell I will catch the next plane outta Australia and kick her madafucken butt...

    PS.. Sorry got a bit passionate... It's happened to me too!!! She didn't succeed though

  • 1 decade ago

    As long as you both know where you stand with one another and that there is total trust in your relationship,i wouldn't put to much thought into this other girl.So she has a major crush on him,that doesn't mean that he is ready to give into her crush.He comes home to you and it sounds like he has given you no reason for alarm.On the concerns of your statement about this other girl,just because she might not seem attractive in your eyes,doesn't mean that she isn't in another's eyes.Beauty is more than the outward appearance,my point is,i feel that you nor anyone should judge this person,there is only one who will pass judgment when the time comes.I hope for her sake,Mr. right does come along for her,just as yours has for you.Treasure the love you have with your man and be so ever grateful that he Loves you back with a true heart.You both are looking at a wonderful life to share with one another for life,so don't add thought to this issue.There seems to be no concern anyway from your statement of the devotion between you and your mate.Best wishes and Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like you have nothing to worry about specially considering she is butt ugly LOL

    Your fiancee obviously respects you and thinks your mature enough to deal with someone having a crush on him. He must be a well adjusted guy, hang on to him. And as for the girl send her a wedding photo I'm sure you'll look stunning

  • 1 decade ago

    Since you met her,call her aside and ask her why is she obsessing over you the man your going to marry. If you have a date set for your marriage let her know that too. I think she will back off then.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It is none of your business and just because you think you are good-looking, it doesn't mean he is attracted to you. I am not saying you aren't, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Personally, I am tired of pretty boys with no substance.

  • 1 decade ago

    if he's told her outright and she doesn't respect that, then she's got issues.

    i would confront her..in a nice way..if possible. it sounds as though you trust him....so i wouldn't worry too much about him..but its HER, right?

    I say if all else fails, ignore her completely and she will see how happy you 2 are and move on.

    he's engaged to you.....that's all that matters.

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Chill out if shes that ugly!!!!! But also try telling her to back off your man and eventually she will. But don't be to layed back.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you trust your hubby-to-be, let him handle it and don't get invovled. Yes, you can listen to him complain about her, but just support his feelings, but don't try to tell him what to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    tsk tsk i could smell that gurl is kinda bitchy! take this situation as a challenge in your relationship. this will help you identify how loyal your boy is.. just ignore her! its not worth of your precious time. ;-)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should do apsolutly nothing. I am sure your fiance can take care of it and I would expect him to.

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