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Women: (attatched, but wanting more)?

Lately I have been totally consumed with the thought of marrying my sweetheart. I know someday we will marry (we are very serious), we have talked about it on countless occasions... but I cannot seem to be patient. Why am I doing this? What did/would you do? I am so in love, but it just seems like we've been together so long .... it feels like the right time to me!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Oh, are you me? Just kidding, I have the same feelings and my boyfriend knows when and just says you'll have to wait and see. I think it's going to be for Christmas that I get a ring, but I'm waiting ever so patiently (not..I'm trying though) I have no answers for you, but I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. So I can empathize with you very well...and we will wait!

  • 1 decade ago

    It is really hard to be patient. It seems like if you love each other, why not get married right now? But if you love each other, what's the matter with waiting, too? I would love to be engaged and then married, but my boyfriend and I are taking things slow. Of course, sometimes slow can seem like an eternity lol. If you guys know you're going to be married, just be patient and be glad you've found someone you feel is the right person for you. If you're young, take your time. Good luck and congrats for finding the one!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    why are you in a rush? unless you want kids asap than whats the point of getting married right now. Enjoy dating and having this time, its really important as well of your whole relationship. And sooner or later yous will get married, and you will be much happier to know that you didnt pressure him into it, that it came at the right time. I know you think that its the right time right now, but you dont know..no one knows, there is a date already waiting for you, so just be patient and wait. Enjoy this time together as a un married couple! there will be plenty of years of being married

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I've been with my fiancee for almost seven years and he just asked me to marry him a few months back. Its timing, all about the right time to take the next step. If you are under 21, then give it more years. If you aren't try droppig some clues, but don't push or rush. You will want the timing to be perfect. Don't get to torn up about it! Give it time. And if anything just bring it up and try to read what he is waiting for.

    Good Luck

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i guess this is more of a question but y do u want to get married u no he loves u so why does that paper mean so much do u feel like if he marries u than he is really yours do u feel like he isnt yours yet

  • 1 decade ago

    go with your heart if you are ready then get married but if not then just wait

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him about your desire..not us!

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