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alright a question about a guy.....?

Alright.....well there is this guy.......he's so sweet and nice.....he's everything I've ever wanted in a guy.....He lives almost halfway across the state and every 2 weeks he comes to visit me, well 2 days ago he ended up crying in front of me....about alot of stuff...he wanted to end it all (meaning his life) and I talked him down......then he told me he wishes everyone was like me because I actually listen to his problems and see people for how they really are......he flirts with me alot......and yesterday we were talking and when I went to leave he stopped me and told me "thanks" so I asked what for, and he said "Just for being you".....and he read some of my poetry and liked it so much that he's writing a song out of it..I feel flattered by that....I really like him....alot....but also he's 2 years older, him 18, I'm 16....and I don't want him in trouble.......But also i don't even know if he likes me......What do I do??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Sounds to me like he really likes you. I would keep this at a friendship level until you are old enough where he won't get in trouble. There's nothing wrong with being friends for a while before having a relationship. If everyone did that then some relationships might not end up like they do.

  • 1 decade ago

    he sounds like a smooth talker to me. when i was your age i met a boy just like that, same age and all, we were friends for a while then when he got me to be his girlfriend every thing changed, he cheated on me and was very abusive. Every time we broke up and i said this is it he knew just how to act and what to say to get me back it was not a good relationship we were better off just friends. so my advise is to just stay friends he is a smooth taker and because he is older it makes him feel in more control, i know he seems sweet and everything you would look for in a guy but that's exactly how smooth talkers work. He lives halfway across the state and you only see him every 2 weeks, im telling he has a girlfriend back home and he probably treats her like ****. The hole wanting to end it all ( his life ) is just part of his act to pull you in. I know that sounds mean but ive been there its the truth. He knows your young and easy to snag, let is go before his pulls you in to deep.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, sounds like you are having fun there. He appreciates and you should do that too. He obviously has some feelings for you. It can be a fatal thing but usually, coming out clean with how you feel about him is the best way to tell him. just tell him how you feel, but you should make room for rejection b'cos maybe he wants you as a friend only. Your age difference is even perfect for your relationship.

    Just trust your inner gut feeling and do what it tells you.

    Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Move the other way across the state so you are farther away from this nut job, the find a normal boyfriend

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  • 1 decade ago

    Arrrrr youngsters trying to act all mature!!! poetry and writting song's. Now lets be realistic, he travels half way across the state to see you ( thats nice ) but he really just wants to get into your knickers. He should really be dating someone his own age!!!

    And thank you!!! for what just for being you!!!! no one understands me quite like you do!!! PLEASE It makes me want to puke.

    Just dont get pressured into doing anything that you dont want to!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Get rid of this loser.....he is totally whacko. Move on quickly and never give him a second thought...he is the sort who will go US Postal.....

  • 1 decade ago

    stay on the safe side for now but also see if he is into you and if he is see what things he is interested in

  • S K
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    He's an emotional leech and you're feeding him. Get away from this guy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Stay away from him. He's sucking you down into his world.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he loves you

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