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why do women go after other womens men?

just wondering why they can't find their own man? we are married and this only seems to make it more of a challenge?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    In my opinion the ***** women try to go after our men because they want a challenge and they want anything they CANT have. I look at it this way, and my husband knows this, if they want him and he's all for it, take him ill find someone better. And if they push themselves on him ill kick their ahem.... its just that simple. But im not gunna fight over him. Just show them to stay away and that he doesnt want them.

  • 1 decade ago

    I've always thought it was a safety thing. If he's already taken, then she has no worries about him becoming too committed. This has, of course, backfired at times since she may begin to want something more and he refuses to leave his first partner. Plus, some women/men like the challenge of trying to take something they perceive as untouchable. It's really very sad.

  • 1 decade ago

    If a woman goes after a single man, there is a reason he is single. A married man is married because there is something good in him, most of the time. If a woman is just after a good time, then she will go with a married man, a single man will hang around.

  • 1 decade ago

    Women will always be women. We are always jealous of each other from the kind of clothes the other person wears to men. This is something unfortunately cannot be eradicated.

    Some women love the fact that they are ''the other woman'' and this gives them power or a rush as they believe that they have the ''one need'' that the main woman lacks.

    Love is the answer to evrything. If your husband loves you passionately, you have no problem and if he can't help it, pray to God. He has the answer to everything.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    With men, it's about dominion. One kind of man holds dominion over the world in order to plunder its power for himself. The other kind of man holds dominion like a protector in order to make this a better world for all. But, with all women, it's about safety. Usually, women will do whatever they have to do in order to feel safer and safer, even interfere in another woman's relationship with her mate. Adultery is a very immature way to cope with the challenges of life. Life doesn't have to be that ugly. Women do mature and learn healthier coping mechanisms than destroying a covenant.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Because women and men are like things that is forbidden.And it's so much fun to have forbidden things.Ä°t's a challenge to have someone who's attached and you want to prove yourself that you can even turn the man/woman around and show him/her what you have.People whom have no respects to themselves and the others,do things like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    Some women just like the satisfaction of knowing they stole someone's man. I was like that back in the day and it wasn't because I liked the guy or was jealous of my friend, I just got a "high" off of knowing I could have him if I wanted. Big mistake but I've since grown out of it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because a lot of the females that do are scared of commitment and they know that if he's married then he wouldn't really leave his wife for them. Or maybe it's the simple fact that it really isn't the feamle but in fact your man going after her or them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you are talking about your own man, are sure that he isn't encouraging them? Some men will inadvertently flirt, and may not even be aware of what they are doing. Young girls, especially, think a guy is flirting, if he complements her, or sometimes even talks to her for any length of time.

  • 1 decade ago

    because some women like a man that is already attached because she knows he won't want a real committment to her, that way she can live her life and still fulfill her needs on the side. and some women are just plain devious!

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