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Ok well I dated a guy who i thought i fell in love with.Well he left 3 months ago to military school.So we broke up with each other before he left.Well he got back saturday and called me.I asked him why he just up and called me out of no where.He said he still has feeling for me.The problem is I don't like him anymore.I want to tell him that but I can't pull myself to do it.What should I do?I don't want him to think i still like him and he gets his hopes up on me and i break his heart.I don't want to hurt him.Last time he tried to kill hisself when i broke up with him.Thats what scares me the most.I want to still be friends though.What am I suppose to do?
He didn't even call me when he was in military school.
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Talk to him in a friendly manner and then slowly open up your real feelings with him, if you tell it to him in a friendly manner, he will not take it negatively.Explain to him what transpired during the 3 months that he is out. a WHITE Lies will help you also.
Your plans for your future life will be a big factor that he will understand your feelings toward to him., show to him that you still cares even you do not like him anymore. Good Luck
- 1 decade ago
If you don't like him anymore, you need to tell him. Say something like, "I just don't feel the same way anymore." By not saying anything, you may be unconsciously leading him on, giving him false hopes that maybe you will eventually get back together with him. I know its a tough thing to say to someone, that you don't like them anymore, but you gotta stand up and do it. It will lift a big weight off of your shoulders. If he threatens to kill himself again, he may only be doing it to make you feel bad so you will get back together with him. But if he looks like he is really going to do it, then you may want to talk to someone he is close with, like his parents or a sibling, and tell them your concerns so they can get him some proper help.
- 1 decade ago
This is a sticky sticky situation. He will either except or reject the fact that you don't wanna see him anymore or don't like him anymore. Rejection is hard for either guys or girls. I would just say " Im so sorry, I just don't have feelings for you anymore, and I really don't want to see you, I wish you luck in love, life and your military cararre" And leave it at that.
