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Is he into me? (middle aged lovers)?
Met a guy on vacation 2+ years ago. We are in the 50ish range. We hit it off, and then went to our different homes. We live 1000 miles apart and he has consistently said that there can be nothing between us because of circumstances, etc. I have offered to fly to visit, but he has said no. Since a good part of this time he has been in employment (and unemployment) turmoil, I understand, though I don't really like it.
But what is confusing to me is that for large periods of times over the last two years, he has called me almost every day. we talk, at times for a half an hour or more.Even if he stops calling for a few weeks, he will crank up again and we are speaking daily or even more frequently.
He says that the phone calls don't mean anything other than that we are friends, but this seems a bit much for there not to be feeling there. What do you think.
8 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I read your question actually if the guy is telling you
is nothing more than a friendship I think u should believe it.
Sometimes guys/men will play the game and let u keep guessing
that it is more than a friendship but they are chicken to say it.
You know us women are vulnerable creatures we tend to get
attached even if it is by a phone call, so i think you should be careful with your feelings because your getting attached!!
- JustMeLv 61 decade ago
I would assume he's married or involved. If a man has feelings for you he doesn't let 2 yrs just go by with phone calls.
- 1 decade ago
Drop him for good girl. He obviously has someone in his life in his town or he would love for you to visit, even as "friends." What I don't understand is why you allow him in and out of your life. Why have a friend in another state that you can't even visit? Something is very fishy there and he isn't worth one more minute of your time.
- 1 decade ago
Married and looking for some on the side. How many like you does he have out there?
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- mulldacityLv 51 decade ago
I think he's stringing you along because he likes the idea of someone wanting him. Sorry to be blunt, but, yeah.
