Bi, Lesbian or Straight?

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There is this girl that I know, she says she is a Lesbian. Nobody really had any reason to question whether she was telling the truth untill she started taking interest in one of my friends. He quite liked this girl but was a little suprised (obviously) when she started giving him signals that she liked him. The chemistry between my friend and this girl grew and all of my other friends that know the pair (including myself) noticed that something was going to happen sooner or later. My friend told me that this girl admitted to liking him, and just when things were about to kick off between the two of them, the girl texts my friend telling him she is a lesbian and that nothing can come of them. Was she in the wrong?
Personally, from what I saw she was completely leading him on and I think she should apologise to my friend, but she never did actually say that she liked him (other than to him) and she never said she was bi/straight.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it is possible to be attracted to someone of a different sex even though you are gay. It can be experimental, a fling or a real attraction.

I am straight but I experimented with a woman once (hated it no offense ladies). Lots of straight people experiment, I can only assume gays do as well.

Anonymous · Answer

Straight

IcyBlue2412 · Answer

It is possible that she WAS lesbian then she started to like a guy. She could be just afraid to step outside her 'box' for her sense of insecurity. That could be the reason she took a step back and not admitting the obvious chemistry she was experiencing with ur pal.

Aila126 · Answer

She was wrong but probably too caught up to realize she was wasting both his and her time . She should have told him a long time ago . And people that claim to be a lesbo,gay are confused people . They do not know what they really like . Give ur Friend some space about this girl but if he asks u if she was wrong , let it out . Say Helllll yeah she wrong and should be checked about how deceitful she was to him about her choice of sex to be with .

Lovewilltearusapart · Answer

Bisexuality doubles your chances of a date on a Saturday night! I have a friend who is a lesbian but on the odd occasion likes to go out with a guy... with no strings attached. They say there is nowt as queer as folk and they are right!

francesrenneboog · Answer

i think ether she was just testing.. and just fooling around... or.. she wants attention and so she tells everyone shes lesbian, or she is bi but doesnt know it.. but i think it is wrong to lead someone on and then tell them your lesbian or something. i personally havent had that becuz i havent had a lot of relationships but i do think it is wrong.

ez_breezy_beautiful_covergirl · Answer

shes bi but maybe was afraid of hooking up with your Friend. but ask her to her face if she really liked him.

HIMSELF · Answer

She needs a good portion of you know what pal!!!

kevannwaller · Answer

there can be genuine feelings between people, without it going enywhere

Anonymous · Answer

tell your mate to give her one anyway

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