Am I Bisexual, or merely curious?

It sounds to me like you are simply growing up normally like everyone else. Ofcourse you are curious, but only you will be able to tell what your sexuality is. Alot of men can be camp but that wouldnt neccessarily make you gay or bi. And both gay and straight men like women. You will know when the time comes what feels right for you. Enjoy discovering life and what makes you happy. If you realise that you are gay, bi-sexual or straight, then what does it matter as long as you feel comfortable with it. Please always practise safe sex by at least wearing a condom ok? And always remember: 'The people that matter dont mind, and the people that mind dont matter.' Good luck, I wish you a happy life! :o) x

It doesn't matter how many women you have slept with, it matters on who sexually arouses you. You say you are a bit camp, but that is stereotypical and doesn't mean anything because that is a personality trait and not a sign of who you are sexually attracted to. When you say "The idea of being with man doesn't bother me" that means that you are not homophobic, which is good, but then you say you could go through with it if the opportunity arose. It comes down to this... if you think you COULD do it with a guy, you are curious. If you WANT to do it with a guy, then you are bi.

I wouldn't call you bisexual, but possibly bicurious.

Bisexual, in my opinion, is a term describing someone who knows that they are sexually attracted to each sex, in whatever degrees. If you wonder what being with a man is like, that sounds like you're bicurious- you're thinking about the situation in a way that makes it possible, and probably likable, too.

However, the fact that you've been this way since you were young makes me not want to use the term 'bicurious'. I equate that term with experimentation, a phase before becoming bisexual, gay, or straight, but not a lifestyle. So my preferred term would be 'equal opportunity lover' or something to that effect- not purely bisexual, but open-minded. Yes, open-minded is a phrase I like.

And, just a reminder that it sounds like you already know- camp does not necessarily equal gay!

I wouldn't worry about the labels, because from the way you talk, it sounds like you know exactly who you are and what you want and feel. That's good enough for you. Enjoy life, bisexual or straight or curious or whatever you call it!

the fact that your definately into women must mean that your not Gay having said that...I was into women for most of my life, not anymore tho so I guess you cant rule it out, untill you actually went with a guy & decided if you enjoyed the experience or not you are not going to know if its just curiousity or you are Bi.

If you was to like it and do it again then your Bi, if not then just put it down to being curious. if the truths known I suspect most guys wonder what it like being with another guy, just not many are brave enough to admit it...well done u

reading this back im not sure it makes much sence but i cant be ar*sed to do it again..have fun whatver you decide

Sexuality isn't determined by technique of adventure, it really is determined by technique of want. Bi-curious is what you're once you at the instantaneous are not particular, yet you ultimately end up wondering what it could be want to be with a member of an same or opposite sex (keep in mind, those who imagine they are completely gay might want to be bi-curious too.)

you are probably bi but the only way to know for sure is to try. but always be safe baby guy or girl. i am 48 now but had been seeing only men until i was 21. i was like you curious about women until i met steffie. the moment i saw her i was all about her and she was my first woman. i found out through exploration with a woman that i like women almost as much as men. so go for it.

You are probably bisexual. If you "felt like this" since you were 15, then the odds are that you are sexually attracted to men (as well as women). My guess is that you are probably not a 50:50 bisexual though.

It really depends. If u want 2 sleep with a guy then do it and if u like it than be bi, but if u don't just stay straught. Whatever works 4 u.

20 years old and you've slept with 14 woman. That's a lot for your age. If you start with guys, the number of partners you have will escalate fast. I don't think your gay, or bi. I think you are just horny. Even if you have sex with a guy doesn't make you gay, it doesn't wipe out your 14 girls. A lot of married guys have fooled around with guys before they got married. They just don't talk about it.

you're definitely not gay. right now you are definitely curious, the fact that being with a guy doesn't "bother you" probably means you have bi sexual tendencies. either way as others have said try it, if you like it great. if you don't like it then at least you will know for sure.