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i love a girl but im scared to propose her please give me suggestions wht shud i do?

she is not my friend...or nething

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  • 1 decade ago
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    wow first congrats ...

    first ru sure u love her if u really love her thn u must be really careful abut wht u do or wht u say to her if ur only attracted n r not sure abut ur feelings better way is to do friendship with her n try knowing her better n thn may be it will b easy for u to propose her n if ur sure tht u love this girl n cant think of neone else xcept her as ur love...(although its not possible without knowing her) still u shud first be her friend n thn try impress her

  • 1 decade ago

    Bro, if you really love her, then just find a way to tell her so. Think positive. Just do it even if it seems a bit foolish to do so. Don't let your ego or fear of rejection come in your way. If you don't get an answer now, you'll regret it till the end of your life. It's terrible to live with the thought that you could have proposed to her but you didn't. And it'll feel even worse when you'll see her in the arms of someone undeserving. So just go ahead and use whatever way you can think of to propose to her. If she's been giving you the right vibes, the answer is guaranteed to be a Yes! Don't miss the bus. It's better to have asked than not asked at all. So Just Do It! And please don't look for tips from others. Just follow your heart and do what you feel is the best way to tell her. Best of Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    My dad did this to my mom once (with a slight variation to fit your scenario);

    Get about fifteen boxes, all ranging from the size of say... a refrigerator box to the small box that the engagement ring comes in. Since Christmas is coming up, wrap up the ring with a little note inside that says, "Will you marry me?" so when she opens it, she'll see the note; maybe tie it to the ring or something. Put that box inside the next bigger box, then wrap that one. Don't forget to put a bow and a name tag on each one after you wrap it. Keep putting the boxes into the next sized box up until you get to the refrigerator box. Wrap that and put a huge bow on it. Give the whole package to her on Christmas and let her go through the process of opening each one. Eventually she'll open up the ring and see the note. If that doesn't work, I don't know what will.

    If it doesn't work, don't hold a grudge against me or anything. I can't guarantee results.

  • Marc G
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Take it slowly and don't rush it. Try catch her alone with none of her friends around. Like that she is open for a conversation. Approach her and introduce yourself. Strike a simple conversation, you know, just like beginner friends. Then wait for the next day. Get aquainted to her well. Take her out for lunch or anything and hang out like normal friends do until she gains your trust. But never, ever give a bouqet of flowers or she will keep her distance. After sometime now its her turn to approach you. That means she has some interest. You got her in your midst. It's up to you to decide.

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  • SGraja
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If you are scared don't love. By the way you are not sure that she loves you. Then what is the use of having one sided love. Love is a feeling that is reflected by both sides. It can not be forced upon some one. This is bitter truth. If she does not have any feelings for you, do not play with the life of the poor girl!

  • 1 decade ago

    First become friends with her and try to know if she is of your type and she's still single b4 proposing her!! Take some time b4 you propose its always worth it!! All the Best :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Make her as u are her best friend then propose ur love to her

  • You're obviously very young in body or mind, you don't know her and you haven't even talked to her.

    You're in lust and imagining her to be your dream girl, maybe she is, but maybe she farts all night long in bed.

    I strongly suggest you ask her out for lunch and find out if she's even intelligent for a start, (actually, your spelling indicates something to me), and then proceed from there..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well...first u must have confidence in yourself.then when u date her out (etc:to a romantic dinner),take out the ring n tell her in a very nice n lovely way saying"(her name),will u marry me?"

    Just try n see if it works

  • 1 decade ago

    INVITE HER ON LUNCH. GO TO PARK. NOW IT IS THE BEST TIME FOR PROPOSAL.

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