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help me with this girl in 10th grade! im in 9th grade :/?

Im in cross country, and im in 9th grade, and i like this girl i thaught was in 9th grade but later found out shes in 10th grade, i have never seen her out of cross country and my highschool is extreamly packed full of kids, and i only see her for like 5 min of roll call, and i dont know what to say, im not able to run with her because the 9th graders run a different street than 10th graders, so i cannot run with her or hang out with her during nutrition or lunch, so i need help on what to do, like what do i tell her, how do i start a conversation with her, and if i did start one, what should i say? please help me out here, i have had an extreamly big ctush on her for over a month, thanx :)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Find out her number, keep in contact with her, and act extremely mature. I am a mature person and for 7 months i went out for a girl two years older than me

  • 1 decade ago

    I know that you have a limited amount of time during the day to see her, but you should make the best of that time! Have you noticed that she's in any other sports or activities? Maybe you could ask around and see what interests that you two share. Start the conversation with something casual; you don't want to seem like you're trying to hard. That's annoying to women, more often than not. Start slowly and see where things go. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    just try to talk to her.. talk to her about anything. talk about cross country with her.. if that is the only thing u see her at then it is a good starting topic. Do you have any guy friends in 10 grade? if they know her then see if you can hang out with them all together. dont have 10 grade friends? do any of ur 9th grade friends know her?

    find out her aim screen name, does she have a myspace or facebook? by talking to her through aim or sending messages back and forth is a great start if u are a little nervous to talk to her in person. But dont feel bad if she doesn;t seem interested because some girls dont like dating young guys. But if that is the case and you still are determind try to show that you act just as old as she does

  • 1 decade ago

    look im not trying 2 be mean or anything but u dont have a chance

    u might have a chance if ure really good with the ladies or ure very popular

    but ey im not saying 2 forget about it but im giving u advice that u should forget about her

    and ifu really like her alot alot then dont give up and u never know it might work out

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  • 1 decade ago

    dude be cool....maybe just say hey I'v seen you run you so good how do you do that would you like to teach me... or go up to her and say that you having a hangout at your house after the next meet if she wanted to come... just be yourself and you will be fine. I had a lot of friends in high school who liked younger guys

    good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wait...so you DON'T see her in cross country? or you do? cuz' if you DON'T...then i don't know what to tell ya. besides maybe saying HEY to her in the hallways if you see her. then she'll at least know you exist. or if you see her anywhere else in the school..start off with a dumb sentence. like.."hey you're on my cross country team huh?" and maybe ask her when your next meet is. it'll start conversation...and she'll maybe get a little taste of your personality. good luck :]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just run her street anyways. Try to lag behind her for about 5 minutes then catch up to her and say, "Dang you're pretty quick finally caught up to ya, what's your name?"

    I'm pretty sure it won't be too difficult for you to sneak into the Sophomore Route.

  • 1 decade ago

    Miner Niner, no chance! Just kidding, be yourself, be honest, make her laugh, ask her what she's interested in, she'll like you...Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    take it slow. ask small qeustions at a time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    talk to her after school??? Duh...

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