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should i continue to try w/ my ex?

for 10 mnth we have been trying to work "things" out yet at times i feel more like a convience to him ( a friend w/ benefits) yet he does some of the sweetest things except for this weekend. he left for camp w/o so much as a goodbye nor a phone call since he left. could it be he doesn't want to fight about the same old ( i always felt he had someone down there - now his ex of 2 1/2 yrs lives 2 doors away) or is it really over? should i move on? i have met 3 or 4 other men who r very much interested but i keep pushing them away b/c i truly love my ex & have never stopped

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    If you are really as close as you say, you should ask him where your relationship is going. If you are going to rekindle anything you had, talking is the first (and biggest) step. Put it on the line and tell him how you feel, but prepare yourself for the worst, so if it doesn't work out, you aren't totally blindsided. Ultimately though, if it continues to drag on with no sign of moving in either direction, accept your relationship as simply a friendly one and move on to someone else before you become hopelessly addicted to a love that may not be mutual. Sorry if it comes off harsh, but this advice comes from first-hand experience. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    It seems woman have a hard time forgetting their BF's. This man is not your man.He is a two timer. He does no respect you. All men can do sweet things if the girl appreciates it. Dump him and I think you are attractive. Look elsewhere you will much better off

  • 1 decade ago

    Use your head in answering this question not your heart, too much stuff can mean u should not be together! Move on and be happy, just ask yourself are u happy? If not move on!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey YOU! Just Leave HOME! Go to GYM, Swim, then RUN. RUN. RUN! That you become do tried, NOT be able to 'remember your own NAME'? Have you ever had such exercise? Certainly NOT! YOUR brain chemical is totally out of balance! GYM is your ONLY answer!

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  • 1 decade ago

    move on to something new. There is a reason he's your ex! Get out and have fun, the whole world is out there for you to find it!

  • 1 decade ago

    Life's too short...Move on.

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