What would you do? This has to do with a co worker/friend of mine?

Job-sharing is a viable option for many. It sounds like, unintentionally, you and your colleague have established this informally. Do your research and consider approaching her and your boss to make this more permanent.

Having worked part-time for the last 6 months, you seem hesitant to get back into a fulltime position. Listen to those instincts. Once you pulled back alittle professionally, you were able to see a new perspective. Which included a personal life not worth losing.

If you want to continue to work with this company, contribute to a win-win solution for everyone. It doesn't have to become a competition. Positive encouragement is more productive....

Good luck...

From your scenario it is obvious that your friend is enjoying the work while you are not there, not sure if she is try to take over your position. If you were in her place you would also feel the same. When you are in the office everyone knows that you can do the job but when you are not in the office and your friend takes on the job which she hasn't done it before and is praised for doing a good job, however during your presence she won't as people know that she has been guided by you.

To overcome this situation, you can ask your boss to switch you to another department if it a big firm but again it depends on you if you would want to work in that department or alternatively find another job. It is sometimes self-sacrificing to make your friend a co-worker but if you really think your friend needs the job and you don't want hurt your friend in any aspect then it is better to switch the job. Anyway you have already gained much experience in your field that find a new job won't be a problem for you. Well just think that you have done something for your friend. Good investments do have good returns!

Hope this helps!

Sounds to me like you need to simply have a discussion with her and the manager about expectations. If you are happy with the job and do not want to leave, then work to make the relations with others good. If the other position is more attractive then fine, but its always best to leave in good standing with the current work place.

It also sounds like the difficulty is in the fact that you were her superior and now she is sort of yours due to the amount of work you each contribute. With the discussion, the tension will melt away with the knowledge that you are not trying to take back what you've relinquished to her. If you are offering comments on her work, you may be coming off as still in that position of trainer. So, its better to just set up an environment where everybody feels free to say what they feel without fear of retribution. Deal with the issues as they arise.

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It sounds to me what started to be a good favor is turning to lemons. Now you must turn that into lemonade,even though you helped a friend out. Your marriage really has nothing to do with this, unfortunately the timing made this scenario very convienent for your friend/coworker. Be a do gooder and look out for yourself. If you were offered a better position, take it. Sometimes as people we must know when to be aggressive or submissive. Which one are you?

Any suicide is terrible and tragic. Plus the emotional scars it leaves on the ones left in the back of. I'm no longer a devout fellow with the intention to say I'd pray for her might be lip carrier to you. But recognise that you just and your buddy Val have my inner most sympathy and speak to Val. She'll want your aid. I'm definite the complete household is thinking about why this occurred and believe responsible additionally. Be a well buddy and permit her lean on you. The exceptional of success to you.

Since you are going back to work full time and it appears that you have a good relationship with your superior, then this problems solves itself.