Kissing..how to?

Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill.

Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.

Start to french kiss your partner as you normally would.Then slowly and GENTLY suck on their bottom lip. They'll love it.

Lick your partner's lips with the tip of your tongue.

Get his/her tongue in your mouth and hold it there by gently sucking on it.Then slowly withdraw your mouth sucking his/her tongue the whole way back.

Rub your tongue on the underside of your partner's tongue.

This could involve a large surface area of your tongue or just the

end of your tongue caressing theirs.

Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.

Flicker your tongue in a vertical up and down motion on the tip of your partner's tongue.

After your partner has french kissed you (with their tongue in your mouth),and begins to draw their tongue back into their mouth, touch the tip of your tongue to theirs and follow it into their mouth.Now it is your turn to french kiss them.

You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm,the neck, maybe running your fingers through his/her hair.

Do not cause pain.

Continue kissing.

Don't you just hate these "grown ups" that say nothing but "Blah, blah, blah...you shouldn't...blah,"

Anyways, kissing really only gets better with practice. Everyone likes different ways of kissing and different moods define what kind of kiss to do. Don't worry, there will be plenty of guys that will give you a chance to practice.

Since you are young...here's some advice...

Don't let ANYONE talk you in to doing anything you don't want to do. A lot of times a guy will think that a kiss is the "go ahead" for more. Make sure you make the decision on how far you will go early so that you don't get caught up in the mood and he makes you do what you aren't ready to do. Guys will beg, plead, and even smooth talk you in to stuff...Just remember, JUST SAY NO. You have that right no matter how far you go, you have the right to stop at any time.

Studies FIRST!

Do not rush into any physical relationships at a tender young age. And don't let any boys talk you into ANYTHING you don't want to do.

BUT...When the time comes...

Don't dive in to the deep end of the pool. Learn how to give soft, tender, slow and passionate kisses with your mouth closed. Best way to learn that is when you are doing it...imagine one of those famous "romantic" kissing scenes from a love story like (Casablanca).

That should be good for starters.

When you start progressing to the more passionate kisses...don't lunge ahead, take your time...avoid startling your partner. Most of all ...Enjoy it.

A GREAT KISS can be better than...ANYTHING!

I feel so stupid writing this. You start kissing all soft and gentle and then you both open your mouths and stick your tongues in each others mouths. It's almost like tongue wrestling and then you soften it and just relax. Try to play against his tongue and if you get bored, srite your name in his mouth or spell a sentance with your tongue in his mouth. Then, if you really want to thrill him get his tongue in your motuh and suck on the tip on it, just a little. Again with the feeling stupid. Just have a good time with it, it's not hard to do if you just relax. I understand your embarassment because I didn't think I'd know how to kiss but I just went with it and I have a great time now.

Never start with tongue. Only open the mouth once you're kissing. If he starts with tongue, don't date him...or train him. Guys are too young and full of hormones for you to go too far too fast. Protect yourself. Also, by kissing instead of taking it all the way home, you learn to be a phenominal kisser. Odds are, you won't marry any of the guys in your freshman class...so experiment! You only learn through practice.

Good Luck!

a freshman is 13 or 14, don't worry about kissing, though when it does come up just lock your lips to his for a couple of seconds.

if the kiss is meant to be than when you kiss the write guy it will be a goos kiss cant really tell you how to kiss cause it is good when it is with the write guy it will all just work out for you and dont be nervous and rush things let him be in charge of the kiss

yeah shouldn't you be focused more in school than in kissing? i mean it's totally cool to have a boyfriend but kissing can really distract you... but if you really wanna know, just part your lips a tiny little, and kiss. after a while, try to stick your tongue in his mouth , if he likes it, he'll keep his mouth open. play with his tongue but don't overdo it or else you'll slobber each other's faces. STUDY FIRST!

Passion honey. You got the fine looking guy in front of you, you need feel it in you first and then go in for the kill. You can be soft, and suck on the bottom lip to start. The beginning leads to finding yourself just taking control afterwards.

first look into the persons eyes then start to kiss by putting your tongue in the persons mouth and slowly move it around .oh ya make sure you hold that person close.

good luck