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Okay, I finally asked him out.....?

I finally got up the nerve to ask out a guy I kind of had a crush on (we are both in our 40s).....He acted like he was pleasantly surprised I asked him (this was over the phone), but THEN he told me that from now until the end of the year is a very busy time for him (he owns a construction company so I know he's busy at work), and he suggested we go out AFTER THE HOLIDAYS. What the heck does this mean???? On one hand, I understand, but on the other hand, if he was really interested, wouldn't he be able to find ONE freaking evening free in the next six weeks???? Maybe he was trying to be nice and let me down easy......I don't know!!!! What do you think??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    never worry!!

    he said himself that he is interested.

    i bet he just wants it to be able to hold out, when he can focus on you, and really think about nothing else when he is with you. maybe he has to finnish another relationship, which is also promising. i really think he wants to be with you.

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    5 years ago

    ok the type a million element with asking human beings out is to no longer over-learn it like this lol. that's not proper what day! Any day works! And that's not proper what you place on, yet you likely does not prefer to be donning disgusting nutrition stained outfits, haha! only tell him the kind you experience. It does not might desire to be on a date. you're able to do it everywhere, each time. And that's oftentimes superb in case you do it on my own....it would be extraordinary with individuals observing.

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