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Should I confront him, or move on?
I've been dating this man for 5 months. He takes frequent weekend trips out of town... When he's away, he's horrible about calling me. When home, he always calls. I'm just about convinced he's either married, or at least involved. He decided to spend Thanksgiving with "friends" out of town... He called when his plane landed, but never called Thanksgiving night, or since (only 3 brief text messages). This is my first Thanksgiving without my Mom (he's aware), and it has been hard. It would have been nice to have him around, or least to talk to on the phone.
I would love for the relationship to go somewhere (lots in common....mostly good times), but am realizing it most likely will not. Should I ask why him what's up? Or, just move on... (I'm leaning towards just moving on...but part of me wants to know what the deal is)... I have a date with someone new next weekend!
Anyone familiar with this situation? What did you do?
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Drop it, move on. If you suspect he has a FAMILY --wife, children, etc-- you KNOW you need to move on. As the first poster said, trust your intuition.
- 1 decade ago
Frequet weekends trips out of town with you? Sounds like someone who is not interested in you to take u along. If he's interested he would have called u when he's away.
Wow to me it sounds like someone who living with two girls or something like that. When he's home, Does he only call u on weekends and afterwork and only two of u are hanging out? If he really cares, he would spend Thanksgiving with u or call u on Thanksgiving or ask u to come with him if hes just going to spend Thanksgivingwith Friends.
Most people think that u have to have alot in commons to have a good relationship; but it's not that it's about loving and learning from each other. If he really loves and cares for u then would call u and even ask u once to go on the trip with him.
my advice, tell him how u feel and maybe ask him if he could take u on a trip next time. If he says no, then ask him why?
Take Care
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Spend Thanksgiving with "friends" out of town??? He should want to spend it with you. Good for you-(that you have a date next weekend) because I would definitely not count on the man you're involved with. I'm guessing he's married. You have nothing to lose by confronting him. But he's probably not going to come clean with you or he'll give you bits and pieces of the truth. If I was you, I would move on.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
I would confront him and move on.
