Has he become indifferent or lazy?

I think that "relaxing" might be a small part of it, but the bigger concern would be that he and you have different needs as far as being affectionate.

I know from experience that you DO relax as you've been in a relationship but touching, being affectionate and expressing this are all unique to each individual and their upbringing.

The best option is to TALK about it, without pointing a finger, but asking why he behaved like that, if your level of affection makes him uncomfortable and what he prefers. Base your decision on how willing he is to compromising and considering your needs.

You sound like an intelligent young woman, so I find it odd that

you would be asking others about this.

If, after dating a guy for a year, an evening out for dinner and a

movie, lots less hugs, kisses and holding hands.

Then to slack off when you try to kiss his neck, Hell NO it's not

because he's gotten lazy or comfortable.!!!!

It's simple dear, 'He doesn't care for you like you do him', and in

all reality, he's probably lost interest.

When a man "really" loves you (or cares deeply) then he shows

it anywhere, any time.

Sure some men are more 'conservative' than others, but these

men (to me) have some serious emotional issues.

If he can't take you in his arms, kiss you, and tell you he loves you, then get rid of him.

Oh boy, this is the wrong question to ask me.....

Let me first preface it by saying if my girl came on to me kissy and huggy, I wouldn't turn that down, at all. That said!....

You must be doing something different..... your question suggests that HE is doing something wrong or HE has to fix something. I suspect however that there may be bigger issues with you. Many times guys will be like this because they either feel that their women, don't respect them, don't care about their feelings or don't care about what they think, and therefore are feeling ignored emotionaly. So I'd start there.... is he feeling those things? If so you should change something.

Of course the above does not apply if he's an a**hole, if he is, then dump him.

Sorry to say this but is it possible he has something else on the side going on.You shouldn't have to be made to feel like your bothering him with affection.The sad truth of the matter is most of us girls are attracted more to those aSSholes for some reason.I finally grew up and realized I'm worth more and so are you.Find you a man where the affection is 100% from both sides.Don't take any crap.Do it for womankind.I promise you if you take a stand for yourself they'll all come running.(including your boyfriend!)good luck

Talk to someone who has been in a relationship for several years and you will get the truth about PDA.An occasional hug or kiss in public is more realistic than when courting in the first year.

I wouldn't ask him point blank because that might constitute an overreaction. You might try asking a teasing question about it like, "What, no cuddle?" Obviously, if this kind of behavior increases, you can be more direct with him.

he is not interested in you anymore, move on find someone who loves you and adores you totally, you dont need to get stuck with such a boring guy

he stayed the same you just changed

better do something than nothing..