sh*t where you eat...?

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okay, so I'm not sure what this means and maybe more people will have a better idea. Last week a guy at work asked if I'd go to this diner where I live, we went, had an AWESOME time (I'm certain it wasn't a one-sided thing) we just had dinner and he left(he lives about an hour away) was this a date?? not even a hug? at first I thought he just really wanted to try this place but the night was kind of "datish" Anyway he's been quiet at work yesterday and today (normally he's almost obnoxiously loud) I talked to him after work and teased him about some jokes we have and he told me that (short version) he has some things on his mind the past few days and is going to take a few days off to relax. Then he tells me he hasn't had that much fun out in awhile and asked why I was so quiet at work. I have no clue if he's interested or if his "a lot on my mind" story was "let me down" gently. I don't think I've given him the impression that I want to date but I wouldn't mind it if he wanted...

Update:

i'm sorry it was so confusing. I know he's single. We've worked together for about a year and know eachother pretty well. The dating thing would never have crossed my mind until I saw what a great time I had with him. I haven't enjoyed being out with someone like this in a long time.

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Bad idea to date him...you went out on one non-date dinner and look how keyed up you are now over his behavior? Imagine if you were dating, were emotionally involved, and things weren't going well?

Dating coworkers is typically a poor idea...when the relationship has issues, that is all drug to work and makes the workplace an uncomfortable place for you as well.

Let how you feel now be an indication...multiply your current level of emotion about this, by 10 or 20 and imagine feeling that way if y'all were dating and he did or said something that confused you or caused you to be uncertain.

It would drive you nuts and probably cause you problems at work. You can't be productive if you're spending all your time wondering what's on your boyfriend's mind as he sits in the cute down the aisle from you.

Kenshin · Answer

go out for lunch and meet him. play out everything like he was your best friend and explain what you think. 

once everything is out in the open. you can end the relationship.

why because I don't think you should date anyone you work with. 
sorry but I just don't belive that.

Anonymous · Answer

A good rule of thumb is not to get your meat where you earn your bread.

tallerfella · Answer

Sounds like he is either married or has a girlfriend.................

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