What can I do to stop the hurting of not being able to see my Boyfriend?

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We have always had the liberty of spending most everyday together at my house... But, my house is off limits, due to constant family problems - So now, I'm so miserable without him and I cry often cause I feel like I've lost my bestfriend. I have become so attached to him and now my nights are sleepless.. and I just feel sad all day! All I want to do is be with him and this is really killing me. 
What can I do to ease the pain... 
         Some one ... please... any suggestions will do. 

Thanks 
Sad & Depressed

Ellexiz, 


Ps... Im 23, and live with my mother who is the one whos making this impossible with her constant arguing, yelling, nagging and complaining... I dont blame him for not wanting to be here. 
He lets me tag along with him to his friends house... but it cant be that way all the time. 
His house is off limits too...  So, now what?

e_piphany214 · Accepted Answer

Ellexiz,
Move out if you can. I think that your mother is afraid of losing you so she is making your life miserable. I left when I was 17 and didn't return to her home until I was 47. My freedom zipped right out of the window. You have to take chances. If you don't you will be 30 and in the same situation.

lot2talkabt · Answer

You need to grow out of your shell. Find a job, get your own place, focus on your life and do not let him or anyone make you obsessed about your situation. It is never a good thing when you lose someone, but you are so young and you life is ahead of you. Grab it by the horns! You can do so much with your time - your situation is not good. Move out, get independent, get yourself some money, find new friends, be yourself and then if you still want him (and don't look at him as your saviour) then date him at your place at your terms!

★Greed★ · Answer

The idea of something often is a disappointment in reality. Your relationship will likely fail as you do no know who you are or what you really want yet – seeking excuses to justify your behaviours.  It sounds like you lied about your age kid.

If you are no longer in school it is time for you to take responsibility for your own life – get a job and find your own place.

Anonymous · Answer

boo its really about that time for you to have your own place. and he needs his own too. if yal into each other like that maybe you all should get a place together. ONLY IF THE BOTH OF YOU ARE READY AND CAN HANDLE IT

Anonymous · Answer

trust me i'm in the same boat... i only get to seee my boyfriend about once a week because we are at seperrate colleges and it sucks so

2dogs · Answer

well like u said. ur 23. legally ur an adult. do what u want. if ur not working. get a job and get ur own place.

Anonymous · Answer

Get your own place.

Anonymous · Answer

get an apartment

Whitney · Answer

Go somewhere to be just with him and nobody else.If I couldn't be with my boyfriend,I donno what i would do!Good luck!

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What can I do to stop the hurting of not being able to see my Boyfriend?

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