Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

12 year old says I hate his girlfriend..?

I met his so called girlfriend on his birthday party. I was talking to the little girl & she was rolling her eyes at me & popping her mouth cause she didn't like me asking her why she bruises up my son at school by pinching him. I called her sassy momma as a joke to break the ice & she said she didn't like me. I took her home after the party & she told my son who is 12 that if I wasn't in the car she would of laid down in his lap. What in the world am I missing here? She called my house & hung up in my face & I called her back & asked her why she did that & she acted like she was someone else. Then she called right back & asked for my son.I think I should keep the 2 of them away from each other cause she shows me signs of trouble & he is too young for a girl friend anyway. Advice please.

6 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    That girl sounds like trouble. She seems to disrespect you. Does your son respect you? Maybe the trouble starts closer to home. You cannot allow this relationship to continue with the girlfriend but it will be difficult to stop. Let you husband do his part to fix this. I'm wondering if the trouble with your mother in law causes the boy to disrespect you. Your son has two parents and both of them have to work together to raise the children.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is a tough situation. Your son is at an age where he isn't going to like being told to keep away from her. You are the parent though! I would tell the next time she calls that she is not allowed to call your house any more since she does not show any respect to you. There isn't much you are going to be able to do when they are at school, but ending phone calls and any contact you can control should be ended. Sit down and explain to your son that this girl's behavior is disrespectful. Reinforce that HE should not be friends with someone that is going to treat him or his mother like that, not to mention that she is physically hurting him too. This is a good way to teach him a little lesson on respect for each other, himself, AND his mother. He will lose interest in this fast little girl eventually!!

  • Neev
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Yeah thats too much. You should keep them away from each other my brother had a gf that young and he ended up being a daddy of 2 before he turned 17. And that lil' girl is Trouble and she may get ur son into a lot if it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes she is a child so she will be childish...she has a bad attitude too...rolling her eyes at you and popping her mouth is downright disrespectful..just keep her away from your son...she sounds like a manipulative bully to me..and yes..she's bad news...you cannot keep her away from your son at school...but you can talk to the head at the school and ask them to keep their eyes open for any misbehavior on her part...this girl could cause alot of trouble for your son and what she said about laying down in his lap....hmmmmm watch her, jail bait....sorry to say but that's the impression i get just by reading about her....

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 1 decade ago

    He is way to young for a girl and she is to young to be sassing you around I'd say it's over

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    that chiLd is too chiLdish..

    from the way she act...

    so chiLdish,,,

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.