Ladies, how high up the hottness scale is dancing in a guy (Partner dancing, not Hiphop)?

I think that the way you treat her is the #1 priority, but it doesn't hurt to have some killer moves to help sweep her off her feet, literally! It never hurts to have a skill like that, especially considering that most men anymore don't have a CLUE how to dance with a partner in a classy way. So I would say it would definately add to your appeal if you had some dancing talent.

Girls always will want a guy to treat them with respect and treat them well, but if you have a skill like dancing, it shows you also have an investment in yourself and it will likely add some confidence, which in and of itself adds appeal. The other thing is that many girls, deep down, still want to be a princess in a fairy tale, that's why we have that obsession with romance and flowers and things of that sort, so if a man could treat me right AND take me out dancing like Prince Charming at the ball? I'd definately find that attractive. :)

Awww...how cute! That could make for some really fun dates and stuff, but it's way more important to have a great personality than to be able to dance.

i think it definitely adds to the hottness....i think it also depends if the girl is into dancing herself...i am so it makes going social events more fun. But its not a dealbreaker unless they think they are a good dancer and they are not....

if a guy can dance you know how he'll be in bed... so its definitely high on the scale of importance but its hot when he can dance too.

it is not that important. treating her right is up there though