Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

should I...?

this happened a long time ago... i met this really cute guy at school, and i talk to my friend about him.... and she F****** turns her back on me, and sleeps with him!!! a part of me wants to ditch her, but I'm not the type of person that would do that, so what should I do? (we're still friends by the way, is that wrong?)

11 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    wow...did u say anything to her about it after it happened. maybe that would make u feel better. and if she doesn't tell u something that makes it better or okay then i would just ditch her if she could do it once she can do it again. trust me i have been there

  • 1 decade ago

    you and her need to sit down and have a long talk about the situation because the way i see it is that she was in the wrong for sleeping with him knowing that you had feelings for him. Me, I probably wouldn't be friends with her anymore, but if you two decide to remain friends, don't tell her about any other males that you like a lot because she might just do it again, and if she does it to you again then she's not really your friend and you need to end that friendship quickly.

  • 1 decade ago

    What kind of friend is that? If you let her behave like that and don't say anything, she'll just continue to walk all over you. You need to at least tell her how low that is - especially if she still thinks she can call you her friend.

    Source(s): Psychologist
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    of course thats wrong. how can someone who is ur friend sleep with a guy u've been telling her about. i'm sorry but ur friend sounds like a b i t c h and u should b careful what's next? she might sleep with someone that u get involved with if she's already slept with someone u like. u don't need a friend like that trust me

    Source(s): my realistic side
  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    what a *****, i would never do that to my friend, especially if she'd displayed affection for him first.. so wrong! ditch the b*tch! ditch the b*tch.. friends respect other friends wishes.. but then again if you didnt actually ask her not to sleep with him.. then she's actually not done anything wrong

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah dont trust her or ever tell her things..i am the same way and cant do that..but slowly pay attention to her and find a better guy to mkae her jealous..just dont completely ditch her but dont trust her either

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think true friends would do that. My friends are like my sister and I would never do that to my sister. Do you really need a fake friend?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    u weren't going out with him. He chose her. But still it wasn't nice of her. You shouldn't ditch her but don't rely on her either.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well...you weren't really going out with him. but still a friend shouldn't do that.

  • 1 decade ago

    That's life...you could have bedded him first, but you let her get him in first.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.