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does having a child at a young age make you less appealing as a potetial mate?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    YES, much less appealing! So if you're not pregnant yet, don't do it! If you are, or you have had children already don't get too depressed about it. I'm sure there are guys who would put up with it. Just not many. Have a nice day!

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't want to be mean but honestly, it diminishes the capacity for a relationship. While the young parent may become more responsible due to the child, they also miss out on many experiences that others that do not have children at a young age have. This results in a difference in personal experiences that may make a gap to hard to bridge. Love of course always changes the equation because when someone is in love they don't care about things like children or minor flaws.

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  • 1 decade ago

    depends on the age you are now and the age of the person you want to be interested in you. At my age, I can't expect a woman not to have at least one child. The age she had the child at makes no difference though some guys do perfer if the child were young (easier to bond that way). Younger guys will be turned off by this because they want to have a child on their own terms, not attached with the woman. My advice, look for older guys, like upper 20s, and they will accept your child better.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If your a woman, men look down on it but then again, after a short while they look down on you whether or not u have kids at any age!

    Us women are a lot more open minded, if we meet a guy that has fathered a child when they were young we just adapt to it! See..thats just one of the things that makes a woman the better of the 2 sexes!!

  • 1 decade ago

    It makes it harder to meet people. However I feel that the men you meet are better. It prob doesn't make sense but you tend to be very fussy. You also have experience of the bad ones and can spot the warning signs! I used to feel really awful about this. I felt like used goods. Some men actually like the independent woman you got going on. If any one ever came up to me when I was out I would tell them pretty much straight away sometimes to put them off but it didn't work.

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    4 years ago

    sure, because think about a dramatically different existence type than maximum your age when you're raising your baby. It signifies that you'll't be as versatile, or provide as a lot time to a significantly better 0.5 besides. even with the undeniable fact that, some would see you as being extra self sufficient and responsible. somewhat it relies upon on how old the youngster is. a touch one is a good type of labor, a teenage will do his/her own element.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not to the child's father. He should have married you, and you should both look forward to dancing at the child's wedding.

    If you are a widow, you have some sympathy built in.

    If you did something stupid with a man who only wanted sex, back when you were 16, then yes. Why should anyone have to raise someone else's mistake, with a woman who proved she made really bad choices? There are lots of women out there without baggage.

    Realistically, you'll have to set your sights on a second-class man who is 10 - 15 years older than you, unless you are a really good cook.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    On the balance more appealing, but it does raise the question of long term commitment at an earlier stage than otherwise, because there are more than two in he relationship

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes

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