Women what would you rather have in a husband?

All of the above. I also want trust, honesty and respect. I don't get that from my soon to be ex. I would also like some common interests, as well as some that are not common. I believe he needs his time with his guy friends like I need time with my friends. As long as we still have plenty of OUR time.

I go with B. the reason being, that a great lover is awesome but, what about when the golden years come and you are still together and the sex is not?? You have to be able to have a friend/companion that you can carry on good conversation with or the relationship will just die out or cause one of you to find a "friend w/out benefits" to converse with.

"A great Farther?"

Forget about it. "Landing a good one" is overrated. Society places too much pressure on girls in this department. It's like guys have to get a good job, and girls have to get a good guy. It's an unfair and antiquated notion that a woman be defined by her ability to get a guy. The real question is, "what do you want besides men?" Answer that, and everything will fall into place!

A great father to the kids and perfect and understanding companion in threading the road to getting older...

A great lover and to add one lots of cas money would be nice

It always seem like it is not possible, but it is... It is possible to be all of the above.

i personally like to have (B)... but in old age, i want the relationship to mature, as we mature... companionship would be nice... someone to talk to, sit and enjoy a quiet afternoon, playing scrabbles... sipping iced tea... with grandchildren playing in the lawn... preferably with other adults supervising :P

E) My husband is all of those things and 2 of the children are not his biological children.

surprise surprise, I DO have all of the above, for a long time now.

You just have to want something bad enough and work hard enough and you can do anything!

it's next to impossible to find a good man

e a great credit card

f great assets

g over sea holidays