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why cant i make any friends?
why cant i make any friends? am i ugly? people say i am. I have curly brown hair with a gold shine and im 5 feet and 6 inches tall. im tall, thin, and tan, and ppl act like i dont exist! WHY!? I only have 1 friend, and now im losing her as a friend because she is now friends with all of the cheerleaders and never talks to me anymore! for sure ill never have a boyfriend...im 14 years old and sadly not one relationship of any kind.
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First off, stop comparing yourself to other people. Not everyone is as great as you may think they are. The cheerleaders may be cool and popular, but you may have things they don't..intuition, intelligence, kind-heartedness...the list could go on forever. You need to approach people to make friends. It seems like you're dying for people to just flock to you...what you need to do is start talking to people...you need to find a group of people you feel at home with, even if they aren't the most popular. Popularity isn't everything; its when you have people who care about you that makes life worth it.
Find something in common with another person in one of your classes, in your neighborhood, ANYWHERE. Just start talking. You need to put yourself out there, rather than expect people to automatically be best buddies with you. I'm sure you don't smell, but the human race has a natural difficulty adapting to new things, like making friends with someone outside of their 'norm' for example.
- 1 decade ago
try spending time somewhere other than in front of the computer if you want to make more friends. Don't worry about a boyfriend yet you're too young for that. Kids can be very mean especially at your age, but if you try to be out going and make an effort you're bound to find a few people with common interests that you can hang with. You're in the middle of the tough years, but it gets better and it will be over before you know it, so try to enjoy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i wasnt in a relationship til i was 17, in school i wasnt like anybody eles i tried to be everybody eles but it just wasnt happening al you need to be is you self no one eles, who cares if you hav no friends, just think if you study in the futher you could hav a good job nice place to be in the monny and when you tri to be some one eles you could end up in the dumps
- Anonymous1 decade ago
hone im 14 also but i cant relate but i can tell you that mabye you should be more outgoing it works for me plus dont worry jr high kids are nothin high school counts the most your in 8th rade right so dont sweat it
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- bridgmanLv 45 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
I have the same problem ? people tell me to be yself but it never does anything? I know how you feel !
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I'll be your friend! =D I'll be like a big sister
- Anonymous1 decade ago
have you tried showering