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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

flirting...flirting...flirting...guys in clubs???

ok i just don't get it how to flirt or even seduce guy in night club...ages between 19-24...everythime if i start to talk with someone that someone is toooo busy listening or danceing to music...or he is having fun with his group of mates...how should i act in clubs and not to be sluty...but sexy nice and noticed...

Thank you

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Just look as though you're having a good time enjoying yourself and the guys should flock to you in droves.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Try going on different nights - you'd be amazed the difference going on a weeknight makes in some clubs. Many places are impossible to meet people in on weekends cos they are full of cliques, and you have to have connections, but on weeknights the crowd is totally different and generally more sociable. Look for guys in groups of 2, or 3 at the most, and ensure there is an equal number in your party and theirs (unless its a crowd, which I wouldnt recommend) then dance the night away and do dirty dancing etc, SO FUN! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you dont talk to guys in clubs until you have them under your control.. bsaically.

    you have to just grab a guy by the shirt that you are intersted in and start freaking with him. thats the best way to get a guys attention.

    after a couple dances, he might ask you if he can buy you a drink and then you'll 2 get start to talkin.

  • 1 decade ago

    do the oldie... glance at him then carry on having fun with your pals then look at him and smile. Do this for a while (not too often just a few times he doesn't want to think your wierd, just interested) then he will eventually get the picture and go and talk to you.

    Thing is though I have never found my prince in a club. someone hides all the nice men.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    umm u may not want to go with llamedos' advice...Ive done that before and some guy reached up my skirt and pulled my thong so hard it snapped! Just be yourself, drown out the music and be seductive. Dirty dance with other guys and keep looking at him making eye contact works too

  • 1 decade ago

    Give him a complimant, and just walk away. Guys might think you were hitting on him, but in my experiance, you have a 65 percent chance of an offered drink [alchol or non].

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    go with a group of girl friends who know some guy friends who will probably invite more guy friends and then u have to look really good...and then have one of ur friends hook u up with someone or dance in a group until a guy pulls u aside...if a friend hooks u up and he leaves, many times he will give u another guy to dance with...and while u r dancing, if he is interested, he will probably try speaking over the music into ur ear like "what's ur name?" or somethin...u need to be "too busy listening or talking to music" too...ajajajjaa...seriously...go with friends and have them invite guy friends...once u get to know those guy friends...if they go alot...they will introduce u to other guy friends and then soon u will know a bunch of people and at least know a few people when u go and soon u'll find a guy.

    good luck;D

    Source(s): xaoooooooo;D
  • 1 decade ago

    Just dance and have a good time with your friends, if a bloke likes you, he'll come over and ask you to dance....look over and try and gain eye contact with the guy you like, if he keeps looking at you, you're in, he'll come over to you, just be patient!! x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just be yourself dress like a sexy woman who is not nervous to go down on a guy but won't just to have sex

  • 1 decade ago

    just go up and start dancing with him and then he will do the rest... like work your way over to him.. works every time....!!!!.....

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