A guy that I like breaks up with me for no apparent reason saying that he just doesnt want to date anymore.?

sounds like there is/are some things going on here that aren't being mentioned, by him that is. Could be a variety of things, hard to say since you didn't even give ages, location, length of the relationship...or much of anything. Some of the things that I could think of to cause this are;

1. Disease

2. Another developing relationship

3. Gossip...heard something about you and doesn't want to ask

4. Peer or family pressure

5. gender identification problems

Don't try to read too much into it. He's not into it. It doesn't have to be cosmic or psychological or secretive or complicated. In relationships, if it's not "YES!" it's "NO." That's all there is to it.

And just because you laughed together doesn't mean you belonged together. I laugh and feel happy with a lot of people, doesn't mean I date them.

Mourn the loss, if you feel sad, then go find something else to do. There's a world full of men out there, not to mention movies, clothes, charities, books, friends, family, animals and lots of other things that are going to be more rewarding than analyzing some guy who's moved on.

This guy is lieing to you. Telling you that you would be the first one he would call sounds like he is trying to pacify you, perhaps you made a big deal in front of him when he broke up with you? Let it and him go. And don't do the friends with benefits thing either, he would be using you. He didn't break up with you for no apparent reason, sane people just don't do things without a reason Though his reason may suck, it's still his reason, and I'm betting it was easier to tell you that he just doesn't want to date to get out of the real reason which is probably "I have found someone better, or I don't want to be tied down to one girl."

Too many fish to worry about the one that got away--besides if you get on like no big deal have fun and don't sit around and worry about it you will feel better and he might think about it--who knows by the time he realizes he was wrong you could be involved and HAPPY--and if by chance there is a time down the line where you two do meet up he wont remember you as the one that hung on that you were independent and moved on--You were confident --that is a very positive personality trait :-)

The guy is clearly having second thoughts about the whole relationship, not just time to cool off. It could be something about your looks, your smell that turns him off and he doesn't want to embarass you by saying exactly what it is. Another reason maybe that he revived an old relationship and you stand in the way. Whatever the reason, have some self-respect and move out.

I was dating a guy that would talk about us having kids together. All of a sudden one day he just out of the blue stopped talking to me. I don't think you took it too fast, he probably just doesn't know what he wants. Sometimes guys are just weird. Just hang on and you'll find someone better.

That happend with me too but in a different way.I was with a guy for 3 day; we wore talking by messages because my computer was broken.I was bored for messages like very sweet kisses,kisses for you and more.I send him a message saying that I am bored and that to have a bf isn't such a cool thing(he was my first boyfriend).I supose he likes another girl but don't worry.You can call him and ask him what's happening or maybe you can be with another boy without saying something to him.

Let him go. Maybe he felt that you went too quick, maybe he feels that now he just doesn't feel the same. He may need time to think about what he wants-if he wants you he will come back so live your life in the meantime and see what happens just don't wait around.

im not sure, my girlfriend broke up with me and gave me VERY poor reasons on why

but its probably because she was in love with her BEST friend which is a GIRL

to this day (4 months after the relationship ended)

i still dont know why, i would just try to forget about it

don't worry about it sounds like a dumb high school guy thing that we do at that age, or most of us just keep movin' on.