i need help its important plz help?

You need to find something, not someone, that makes you happy. Your bf or best friend may not always be around (which of course you now already know) Take up reading, writing, biking, or another form of exercise. Despite the obvious benefits from a hobby, you really need to get to know who you are. You aren't and shouldn't be defined by your boy friend or best friend. It's okay to miss people, but it shouldn't be the end all.... You need to be okay by yourself, and let others know that you are okay by yourself. People who are too "clingy" seem weak, and are portrayed as such. This kind of mind set and thinking will lose you more than you realize. You need to walk, jog, do or find some exercise that you like. It will make you feel better, especially when you are upset.

Hey. I would love to help. If you can... try to do sports or like after school stuff at your school. You HAVE to have more then 2 people you know. Feels like it or not.. more than 2 people like you. I can guarentee that no matter who you are. You need to stop obsessing over only being great friends with them. Try to find new friends.. talk to some people that like you. Go to the mall with other people. Get your nails done. Get a puppy/kitten. Clean the house. Make a memory book. Paint pictures. << All things you can do no matter how rich or poor you are!

I myself get down and lonely sometimes. I have soo many people that love and care about me it isnt even a joke. I had 5 people call me one time because they were gunna go 2 the mall with me and I didnt want to go because I thought one was mad at me. I didnt realize how many people actually like me. I do cheerleading. No boyfriend right now but last year.. had one every week. I am really trying not to date for atleast until the nice summer!! I get along with everybody at my school. The things I do alot are::

Mall

Movies

Take walks

Have friends over

Computer

Bake Cookies

Get my Nails done (with friends of course)

Cheerlead

Watch some T.V

Call people

And tons of other stuff. Those are my favorite in order top 2 bottum tho!!

Hope everything goes GREAT for you!

Dont go into depression. I overdose sometimes when I get down. It sucks. Dont do it!!

KiiZZEZ BEiiOTCH <3

Good Luck!

You just need something to do. Did you ever think of joining any kinds of activities or clubs at school. Maybe that will keep you busy, so when you feel like your alone and dont have anybody then you can work on whatever activity your doing. Or go out and meet new people.

O God! Refresh and gladden my spirit. Purify my heart. Illumine my powers. I lay all my affairs in Thy hand. Thou art my Guide and my Refuge. I will no longer be sorrowful and grieved; I will be a happy and joyful being. O God! I will no longer be full of anxiety, nor will I let trouble harass me. I will not dwell on the unpleasant things of life.

O God! Thou art more friend to me than I am to myself. I dedicate myself to Thee, O Lord.

- 'Abdu'l-Bahá

(Compilations, Baha'i Prayers, p. 150)

Happiness is one of the attributes of the true believer, but this cannot be achieved by a life founded on the delights and pleasures of this world. For such happiness is only transitory and can indeed be sorrow in disguise. Only those who have entered the valley of contentment have experienced true joy, even though their lives be subjected to affliction and suffering. Bahá'u'lláh states that the wayfarer in the valley of contentment burns away the 'veils of want... From sorrow he turneth to bliss, from anguish to joy. His grief and mourning yield to delight and rapture.'(7)

(Adib Taherzadeh, The Revelation of Baha'u'llah v 1, p. 99)

"Chaos and confusion are daily increasing in the world. They will attain such intensity as to render the frame of mankind unable to bear them. Then will men be awakened and become aware that religion is impregnable stronghold and the manifest light of the world, and its laws, exhortations and teachings the source of life on earth.'

(Compilations, Lights of Guidance, p. 126)

Not only must girl children receive adequate food, health care, and education, they must be given every opportunity to develop their capacities. Girls will not only render service to humanity as mothers and first educators of the next generation, but, as women, they will make special contributions to the creation of a just world order -- an order characterized by vigor, cooperation, harmony, and a degree of compassion never before witnessed in history. Mothers can now be the primary agents for empowering individuals to transform society. They alone can inculcate in their children the self-esteem and respect for others essential for the advancement of civilization. It is clear, then, that the station of mothers, increasingly denigrated in many societies, is in reality of the greatest importance and highest merit.

Women and girls must be educated -- spiritually, emotionally and intellectually -- because a mother cannot pass on what she does not have. A child needs a nurturing environment and wise guidance in the first years of life in order to develop sound character and a well trained mind. If the mother is unable, because of her own deficiencies, to provide her children with experiences which will equip them for later, formal schooling, they will find themselves at a serious, often crippling, disadvantage. It must be stressed, however, that this dual responsibility of developing the child's character and stimulating his intellect also belongs to the family as a whole, including the father and grandparents, and to the community

(Baha'i International Community, 1991 Apr 22, Girl Child)

you should be included in your boyfriends life.

GET A REAL PROBLEM.....DONT INVENT ONE

is there a question somewhere in there?..........hope this helps

y the hell wuld i read all that about YOUR problems?!?!?