We are the same soul in different bodies. But she has a relationship with my friend... Ideas please...?

First...look up "friend" in the dictionary. Second, look again. Third, a 4 yr old could finish your sentences. Happy New Year!!

If she feel the same way, she should end her relationship, then you 2 need to talk about this and decide what to do.

And I think that you have to talk to your friend, its a highly sensitive situation, but honesty is always the best path. In the long run you cant hide for your friend whats up, and you will hurt his feelings more if you have an affair with her, while they are together.

And finaly, this is not an uncommon situation, it happens all the time!

Whats more important to you

You can choose your friend............

Or you can choose the girl.............

Either way each person makes their own choice for their own reasons. I've seen it destroy the friendship of a couple of my mates, where at the same time other mates have done the same thing and now they are best of buddies again.

My opinion is if you and this girl are soul mates then there is nothing wrong with being a friend. That way you gain a friend and later down the track you haven't hurt any-ones feelings.

Wow!!! All i will say is that if a guy can wait as long as he has been waiting to be with you, that exhibits you he's the single. I understand the different guy loves you only as lots however the only thank you to appreciate is that in case you spent a protracted time removed from him and notice if he strikes on and waits for you. yet come on, the guy you made an settlement with continues to be waiting in basic terms for you, no longer many adult adult males can try this. i think of he merits you better than the guy you're presently with.

Ask her. If she feels the same way then you can go ahead. Don't be too messy. Love is a gentle emotion, it is pure and selfless. By tact you can clear steer of your friend and you will have both your soul mate and your friend intact.

A warning : physical mates fight and make hell for their partners, the same is true of soul mates too. unless you don't take things for granted and work hard for understanding, soul mates also end up as disasters.

That is very sweet, but how does she feel about you?

A very similar thing happened to an ex of mine. He fell in love with his best friend's girl. They were totally honest with the guy about it. They guy totally understood and gave them his blessing. They even ended up getting married! So, if you really love her and she loves you, then you need to talk to your friend about it and explain everything.

HOWEVER, don't do anything physical with her until they are broken up and your friend is cool with everything.

geeee, with friends like you no wonder i tell people to go away

i wouldn't want you as a friend, i wouldn't be surprised if your so called friend beat the mess out of you for hitting on his girl

you have a simple infatuation and thats all, you went out as friends on one day and she showed you some sympathy and you are ready to trash your friendship over that

you have no honor

then follow the word called "sacrifice"! ur friend had come into ur life first! try finding another girl or date her sister if she has!check out on more info regarding all thises questions at http://valentinesday4all.blogspot.com/

Makre sure she remain your soulmate and soulmate only until they break off :D

i suppose u shud talk to ur friend abt this and get things right

happy new year to you too buddy