ladies......whats a good idea for a 4 year anniversary gift?

Do something from your heart. Are you at all a writer? Write her a poem, or a love note. How about a love note for each year you've been together and you can give her one when you start your date, one part way through dinner, one before dessert and one at the end of the date? Make each love note reminiscent of the fun times you have had in years one, two, three and four. At four years and still only a girlfriend, it might be time to be thinking engagement ring if you're ready. :) How about a unique photo album you have put together of photos of the two of you- you can do that at shutterfly.com and add your own notations. How about a charm bracelet with charms on it that are significant of the times you've had fun or places you've been together? I could go on and on... :)

I have a couple of answers. But I think you should include a card that says something like "Meeting you was one of the best things I've ever done..." or some kind of thing like that or like a poem. You may think it's totally corny but some girls think that's really sweet and totally thoughtful.

For the present:

I have a couple of ways you can go:

Shiny- A heart locket with a picture of you and her or her name ingraved or something along that line!

If she has a favorite band buy you and her tix

Or... if she has a place that's really special to her take her there for a romantic picnic! That would be so cute!

I hope it works out!

Good luck!

-Micah

Since u said money is not a problem, you should plan a romantic getaway to somewhere like Hawii or even Europe. You can present her with the place ticket or something. My boyfriend did that and I thought it was so throughtful of him. Another thing you can do is get her Tiffany jewelry, like a little heart charm necklace. On top of those things i think you should still give her a bouquet of flowers, like when u go pick her up or something.

If you want it to be meaningful maybe a ring with an enscription. It doesn't have to be an engagement right or anything. Even a neclace. You can say anything you want or just put the date of your anniversary. I think that would be very special.

Or you could do something cute from a picture of both of you. For example you can blow it up and get it printed in black and white. Then add red (color of love) to some of the areas. Put a pretty frame around it and write something special on the back.

take her to the first place you guys went on a date and make it all special, buy her a beautiful meaningful piece of jewelry like a promise ring or something like that. Have a hotel room ready and waiting for you guys and put rose petals everywhere light some candles. Be romantic, trust me we don't find it cheesy.

you should an amazing night, exquisite dinner, nice soothing desert, dance to mood music, with a waiter, and a dish washer so you can continue a nice night in bed. Then shell thank you. Also get her a nice peice of jewelry.

You should give her something special...like a promise ring. Pick the stone that represents this month and make sure you tell her that when you give it to her. Then, give her some of her favorite flowers...in the bouquet let one of them be silk...and tell her you will love her until the last flower dies. I've always wanted some guy to do that for me... :)

I love to get gifts from my DH that I know he has put thought into. The big question would be what does she like? If you know her favorites it makes it easier to get something special. What about concert tickets to see someone she loves but has never seen? Or tickets to a show on Broadway. A gift that you can wrap up is great, but something that makes lifetime memories is priceless!

you should get her a diamond ring for $124 or get her a silver bracelet for $54. ($124 at kays jewlry) ($54 at walmart)

Jewelry is always good!!! Maybe some type of pendant with a heart and diamonds or red rubies.