how can i relax and make sex more enjoyable?

Have something to drink first. You don't have to get drunk, just a few glasses of wine will relax you just enough. Once you have been sleeping together for awhile you'll feel more comfortable and relax naturally.

You may also want to try using some kind of lube to reduce friction and pain; skin cream will work.

Don't think of sex as test that you must excel but as a mutual gift full of love. Take a deep breath and relax ...

Nobody will judge you or give you a grade!

HE needs to spend more time exciting you -- there is such a thing as foreplay and it makes the whole experience much more interesting --- more guys should try it

In all seriousness....Practice with yourself and a vibrator....

It will help with the pain in the future with your partner and will also teach you what and where you like to be touched.

try to get lubricated first and then gont get it in so fast, n just relaxe..

more frequent practice, plenty of lube.

try interspecies erotica first. a donkey might help

try caltex advance

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