why did I marry my high school bully?

You fell in love with himThe bullfrog finally turned into Prince Charming.Maybe he always liked you.Hope you will be happy.

Here goes for at least 2 points. Learn to honor yourself, to trust yourself, to acknowledge that you are truly great and wonderful. Then ask yourself if you are honoring yourself in this relationship? Consider divorce. Consider therapy. When you said the magic words you found something in the relationship that was worthwhile. What's changed? Him or you or both? Are children involved? If not, might be best to back out of the relationship and start looking. Remember, stats on 2d marriages are worse than on first marriages (70% divorce rate for second, 63% divorce rate for first). You are the most important person in your life...honor yourself first.

You were infatuated with the bully who probably treated people wrongly for his own self worth. Now that you are older, all the weaker people he bullied are doing 100 times better in their lives compared to the retard you married. I got one of those idiots as a neighbor and he still lives in the past. His wife can't stand him and wants to divorce him since she realized what kind of an a s s hole he truely is ...and was.

Were you bored to begin with or where you excited over the fact that he was the dangerous bully in the school and being with him gave you power to get what you wanted. You know the bad boy thing.

You got married too early, my prediction is that you'll both cheat on each other or get a divorce by the time you turn 30. Sorry for the bad news but I already know. Good luck

Hopefully you married him because you love him and knew he was the one for you to be with for the rest of your life... if that's not the reason and the marriage is going downhill then I am sorry for you, but wondering why you are asking complete stangers a question you SHOULD be able to answer yourself.

Perhaps you were bullied into having a relationship with him? Maybe Stockholm syndrome? Married at 19, maybe you were pregnant? Not sure, but I hope it was not a mistake.

Probably because you have low self esteem, prefer abusive men to those who would actually be nice to you and your mom had either one long term abusive relationship to your dad or a short abusive relationship with your dad and a series of abusive relationships with various boyfriends.

Just a guess - a lot of girls who marry bullying men have a history like that.

i knew mine since i was in kindergarten - married him - he teased me horribly from the time we were 10 years old up until the day i kicked him out of our home for doing the same to our children. I thought when we got married - and as we grew older - that somehow someday he would mature *laughing hystericallY* yeah right!!!

All kidding aside - you married him becuz u loved him. :)

Was it a good choice of husbands ?

Perhaps you married him out of some kind of need to be dominated. ?