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guy troubles.. plz help?

OK, so there is this guy I really like a lot. He knows it.

Imagine you were him if you could and try to tell me what he is thinking maybe...

This happens like every week at least once:

Ok so one day he'll do everything he can do get my attention, whether it is staring into my eyes or walking right towards me in the hall and smiling at me when he walks past.

The next day, he will avoid my gaze if I look towards him, or he walks a different way in the hall to avoid me.

I really like him and would do almost anything to get a chance with him. I know that he used to like me when we were kids (14-15 now)

Does the way he is acting mean that he likes me still? I don't understand. Please help me if you can!! I need to know... there is a school dance coming up and I want to ask him but I want to be sure first.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think he's playing with you. See he's looking at you and paying attention to you to get your attention one day and then he wants to see if you are going to follow after him or try to get his attention when he's not paying attention to you. What tends to work is on those days when he's not paying attention to you don't pay attention to him. Start trying not to pay attention to him, not avoiding him. You're almost playing a little game with him where you want to have him wonder why you're not all over him anymore, trust me this actually works. but remember every once in a while pay attention to him to keep the interest so he doesn't feel like you have completely blown him off for no reason. Best of luck! =)

  • 1 decade ago

    Ok well, it sounds like you're over-reading the situation. I mean, how do you really know that he walks down a different hall because he just wants to avoid you. If you do know that's he avoiding you, that's a huge red light right there. You might as well back off or cool your jets because you're probably scaring him. Otherwise, it sounds like he's just trying to be a friend. Again, my info is limited, but I don't know what you mean by staring into your eyes (short eye contact versus just plain I-can't-take-my-eyes-off-you). Likewise, walking right towards you and smiling and as he walks past is something that friends do as well. It also bothers me that he knows that you like him, but he does nothing about it.

    You are young, however, so he might be shy and not sure of what to do so force his hand and ask him to the dance or at least to a movie. Either way, try to get some alone time and if he runs from that, I'm sorry but he doesn't like you that way.

  • Big C
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Simple. Just go up to him and say hi. How are you doing in school? Then tell him how you are doing. But just go up to him every day and say hello. Then one day, just casually mention you do not have a date yet and just drop it there. Most guys who are shy are afraid of rejection. If you want, put your hand on his arm when you talk to him, That will turn him on. Then when you leave, say, "Well, I will see you tomorrow"

  • 1 decade ago

    you should probably talk to him. make sure that every day he is staring at you, trying to get your attention. then bring up the topic of you two as a couple. or ask him to dance and talk about it with him there.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Isn't there anything else you're concerned about other than a dumbassed punk that wouldn't remember you 5 yrs. from now grow up and get your mind outta your crotch and back in the sewer where it belongs.

  • 1 decade ago

    He is flirting with you.

    He is interested but he wants a friendly little chase.

    He doesn't want you to think he is easy to get...and maybe he can be moody....

    Ask him out too the dance... you will have your answer....

  • 1 decade ago

    ask a guy friend to explain.

    cuz they will probably kno the guy and if he has feelings.

    i did this and found out that my crush dissed my behind my back and was a player.

    good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask Him. What's the worst that could happen?

  • 1 decade ago

    i do this to a girl i like he likes you just hes a guy and guys try to hide but they suck at hiding it

  • Tellie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I believe he likes you, you know how hard it is for you to approach him , well so is for him .

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