my man hates blow jobs but i love to give them......?

I really don't know what to say here, but hmm. Doesn't like them? I almost can't get past the fact that he said that. That, and there is nothing better than reading a woman talking about loving to give them. I am almost at a loss for words.

Honestly though, what works in a BJ for one guy will not always work on the next. I am sure there is something you are not doing "right" specifically for him. I would just ask him about it. You two are married, and things like this need to be discussed.

In the end, he may not like them. Who knows why. I can't think of why, but you know what they say. Whatever tickles you pickle. Maybe BJ's don't tickle his.

Are you sure he doesn't like them?. I think that as a man he is a little weird!. I love them, the next best thing to actually having real sex, and if they are as good as you say they are ... well THAT much better. I think that maybe he has an issue of some kind. Is he insecure of his manhood. Is there something he sees that you don't?. Will he even talk to you about it, if so you need to ask he a few questions about it.

I hope that for his sake ..and yours, you can get this cleared.

Has he always not liked them? Have you discussed why he doesn't like them or is there any particular part about them that he doesn't like? Could it be a religious thing? Does he like to perform oral sex on you? I know - sorry - lots of questions but not too many answers! I guess generally speaking a sex act isn't fun if both parties aren't enjoying it. I think you need to have an open discussion about it and see if you can get to the bottom of it. Maybe if you can understand him better, you may be able to accept it and give them up yourself or maybe he can get past whatever hangup he has about them. If it is a big source of friction for you guys, counseling might not be a bad idea. Good luck!

He may have had a bad experience in the past which has put him off the act altogether. I had a similar experience with one of my exes and turns out he had a not pleasant experience with an ex and ever since then, he just was not able to enjoy it and if that's how they feel, then you have to respect that, you can't force them to have it done because in the end it will only feel like a chore to both you and him.

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uhm, yeah. you might just be thinking you give good ones.

Personally, I love getting them. But my wife neither liikes giving them or is really that good at it, so even though I build up the anticipaton to the occasional ones I get, I usually just prefer she doesn't do it at all.

Maybe you should ask him if there something he would like from it, not coming right out and accusing him of thinking your bj's are bad, but just "hey, I like doin this, is there something I can do to make it enjoyable to you?"

black and white....you are NOT good. so stop. your hurting him. p.s. he is only tellin you he doesn't like them from anyone to avoid hurting your feelings. go watch some porno's to learn or ask him up front what he likes. you may realize he likes bj's but completly different than what you thought. communication is the key for everything in a relationship.

Your man is a one off!!! No man I have ever none has said no to a blowey!!!!!

Well a answer to help you both would be to suck on a vibrator while he is pleasing you. As a form of foreplay. If your husband doesn't get into that then you have a problem, love.

wow....a man that doesn't like BJ's...I didn't know that one existed.

Have you really asked him why? Could be a very good reason....I knew a guy once who didn't b/c he was "forced" to as a child to someone and it brings back really bad memories.

Sorry.....just keep trying...one day I am sure he will begin to like it.

Do you try kissing him afterwards or get close to his face at all afterwards...A friend of mine doesn't like to get a bj's for that reason.