What really hurts your feelings?

When people do terrible things to children....such as the sick mother who put her child in a microwave then later on took the baby to the e.r. After having a baby and knowing the instant love you had for your child, thats stuff makes me sick to my stomach worse than it ever did before. I think post pardum depression THAT bad is not an excuse, i think its a psycho mental disease.

When people say or believe what someone said about me that is totally out of character and against everything I believe in and stand for. I once quit a job I'd had for four years in customer service because I got tired of being yelled and cussed at by the customers. While I worked there I did everything I could to make things better for the employees. After I left I found out a couple of those employees I'd tried so hard to help were saying I had an affair with my supervisor and that I embezzled money and was told if I didn't quit they'd fire me, and so many of the other employees I'd helped were so quick to believe it. I've never taken a penny that didn't belong to me nor had an affair, and that people would say and believe those things really hurt, especially people I'd risked my job to stand up for.

I have been told by a few ppl that I am intimidating! ME! I'm only 5ft 3, and 130 pds. I have always considered myself as a very easy going and happy person, I love to help others when they need it, I'm a great listener, and for the most part, usually walking around on cloud 9! I discussed this with a very close friend, whom also is a mentor, and the CEO of the company I work for. She explained to me that I carry myself with confidence, and very professional. She said this can be very intimidating to others that are not as "strong" as I am. I was left open mouthed. I don't want to come across to ppl this way and it really hurt my feelings.

When the general public has bad information fed to them about you, and they draw their opinion from newspapers, tv, you know media that is out for headlines, etc . . . That hurts, but when you find out that people who are your friends, family and others you though that you could trust to know you well enough to not "turn on you" before the final judgment about you is made; that really hurts.

People who sacrifice loyalty for gossip at my expense really hurt my feelings.

People who are "fair-weather friends."

Certain gov't. agents who get so lost in their job that they are

willing to do anything, even immoral to advance their career. These particular individuals were willing to send me to federal prison for 45 years if it meant a promotion for them. They knew they were in the wrong (to put it mildly) from the beginning. They were recorded on tape having a conversation about pursuing the situation further after not being able to get me to do anything wrong. I was of course proven innocent, this situation is a whole different story. You just learn alot about the people that you think you know when a situation like this presents itself.

I feel bad when people make fun of how short I am or for the fact that I have small boobs

Sometimes nothing... sometimes everything. I just do nothing when someone makes me feel bad.. this is because I just don't want to hurt him/her back because I don't want them feel what I felt.

Only persons i care about can hurt my feelings and those shouldn't...But lets say that I'm really sad when they accuse me of what i havent done,when they dont trust me and when they dont even try understand me...

When my friends talk and leave me out, they call me stupid (I know it's a joke, but it's still hurts), when they say you have split ends, etc. A lot people are so mean these days.

Disgrace.

I hate when I get accused of things i didn't do. It is so anoying, My friends will go on and on and never stop. Also, I hate when people lie to me.