Women Only Plz, You need to be in the mood for sex, what gets you there.?

question for you: have you "fed her head"? have you in the recent past done the dishes without having to be asked? vaccuumed the floors? taken out the garbage? cooked dinner and cleaned up? picked up after yourself after dropping uyour clothes? given her compliments, even when you don't want sex?

hints: tell her she looks sweet even when her hair is a tangle and she's sweaty from cleaning the house. offer a shower for two and you lead the way. have her follow your lead.

be considerate and respectful. speak calmly. no fighting matches. no knock down and drag out battles of "you always" or "you never". that's for the playground in kindergarten.

show her that you are a man of character. tell her why you fell in love with her in the first place.

have you told her? if this isn't being talked about, then get talking now.

women need to have their egos stroked just as much as men do. so, stroke her ego. appreciate her. she'll come around.

Sometimes we just can't get in the frame of mind for sex. First we have to take our mind off of what has went on that day. Honestly the best way to get us in the mood is WINE.(or beer or our favorite mixed drink). Try giving your lady a nice glass of wine to drink and then give the massage, and while you are giving it offer her another drink. Then she will be in the mood my the time she has finished the third drink or you have finished the massage, whichever comes first. I know some people out there don't drink but when I come home from a long day at work, I would love to get a drink(or two) and a massage, I would be yours for sure.

All the stuff you did was nice, but what works for me is being listened to. Yup, just rambling about my day and truly being listened to, then a hot look. You have to look her in the eye like you would take her in a second. Always stops me talking!

I also think the #1 turn-on is my man's smell. NOT his cologne, but HIM. Have her put her head on your shoulder and breathe deeply, hold her close and wrap her up in you. If it works, you will feel her whole body relax and draw in close to you. If that's not the case with her, I'm sorry but maybe the chemistry's just not there.

wow lol sounds liek you are the real gentleman! i know that all of these gifts would most defientally put me in the mood. it could possibly be that she just doesn't have the sex drive that other women have. depending on what kind of person she is, have you tried just asking her? maybe subtly say something liek ... "now that we have cuddled on the couch, why not take it to the bed?" if this works, maybe she will understand and take you up on that offer. she may just be too shy to start anything and you may need to guide her first. hope this helps!

I don't know what's up with ur girl, but I'm always up for it! You can give me a look and I'm ready. Everything that you've said usually will turn a woman on. Maybe she's just not that much into you that she wants to sleep with you.

I have been married 11 years, together for 13. He just has to walk in the room and I am so turned on by him. We are very loving, touchy, feel, cuddly with each other. I can't wait to see him everyday. I can get so turned on just by talking about him.

whilst it is spontanious.i had a gf who could randomly purely start up feeling me up and it became me on alot cuz i wasn't awaiting it. teasing additionally gets me going yet to no longer lots cuz then this is going to become a hasle. making out and being very gentle and havng alot of touch is large additionally. like if she is staratled over me as we make out and we slowly grind and push against eachother. haha there are some recommendations that turn me on and particularly get me interior the temper

She sounds kind of dense. A simple touch, a nipple carress or the other area, a nice french kiss are a few things that would do it for me.

u cant make a woman get in "the mood". it has to happen naturally. if u jst looking for a one night stand, then go to a club or something. if its a long time girlfriend, you should know by now what turns her on...

or you can just be brutally honest and tell her that you're craving her body :)

okay for women, everything is in our minds. so get into her head, say sweet seductive things that will turn her on so much she wont be able to resist you

however you have tried alot... and honestly, i think the problem is her not you- sorry to be so harsh