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I am in my early forties and I think about sex all the time is this ok?

Esentially I am in a relationship with a nice woman but sex appears to be a chore to the woman I am with I however am very sexual and I can go out at least several times a day per week and have sex.It is tough when I see 20 somethings and I lust for them but I am not attracted to woman in my age category is this normal

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  • Bruce
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    All men want the younger woman, thats natural, but the question to ask yourself is, do the younger women want you? I think you know the answer already. As males age the desire for sex decreases, so you have nothing but time on your side.

  • Gina 7
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Of course that is ok! That is normal actually to think about sex alot. Has something happened that has made you feel that way like a newboyfriend or a affair? Maybe you just feel better about yourself or mate? It is actually healthy to have a good sex life, Doctors tell us. The only harm it could do is interfering with your Job if you work. Enjoy every moment , maybe you have just hit your prime and your'e a late bloomer?

    Source(s): Myself
  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If you're thinking of sex during day and not getting any work done then I would say it is a problem.

    sad to say, your relationship with this "nice woman" is in trouble. You have needs that are not being met and you're considering other companions.

    I would tell this "nice woman", give here the chance to see if she is able to better meet your needs.

  • 1 decade ago

    Many men lust after younger women. They need to prove that younger women are attracted to them. I think you should take the tiger by the tale and grow up to the fact that what you are doing is wrong. Accept reality and stop looking for greener pastures. In reality, it's not there. Good luck.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hey, I am in my late 60's and I am worse than you, or should I say better? I am out at least twice a week and I have three friends that love to take care of me on a regular basis when their husbands are at work. They are much younger and I have fathered four children with them and still going strong. Just keep up the good work as it prevents us from getting old!

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course. And many women act the way she does. Does she really like you? Are you doing everything you can to give her lots of pleasure? Focus totally on her when you make love. Many men make the mistake that if you do it lots they will be happy. Instead, find any little thing she likes and do it. Think about her, not yourself. When you are doing it, you know that you are going to get yours, but what about her?

  • 1 decade ago

    Too normal, I'm afraid. However, you'll find very few 20-somethings interested in a guy in his forties (unless he's rich).

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    its perfectly normal behaviour and biology.

    You need to address this with your partner or find ways to turn the chore into an event.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    One tends to live in the past. Try to have sex with ur gf to ur heart's content and see how real r ur desires.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hell yeah. Trade that old kanker in on 2 twenties.

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