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Haley asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

My guy friend is so weird???

My guy friend is super nice which makes me think he is gay but he is STRAIGHT. But soemtimes when we get into an argument he always dwells on little details...Like when i say "i don't care.." he will say why not?? and i said i dunno...and he will say wel there must abe a reason! it gets really annoying after a while...How can i tell him he should be less weird?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe you've got a guy who has actual feelings for you and your well being. We are not all cro-magnon types who drag our knuckles on the ground. Hell, I get tips from watching Days of our Lives on how to be more caring and considerate...worked for me!

  • 1 decade ago

    I have a friend who comes across as being gay, or at least very camp. No offence, but I'm sure you have a fault or two that he overlooks, maybe you shouldn't criticize him. If he is purposely trying to annoy you though, just don't rise to it, just walk away or ignore him or something. Hope this helps.

  • 1 decade ago

    I dont see him as weird, and his "being nice" doesn't mean that he's gay. You think all nice guys are gay?

    However, I do see his constant drilling you for a deeper answer to be annoying. Tell him "to just accept your answer and stop drilling you for an deeper answer because it's friggin annoying."

  • 1 decade ago

    He isn't weird - he is just someone who thinks about the reasons/issues. Sounds like you don't - and this makes the two of you rather incompatible. Especially since you think he is weird - and acts like he is gay ---

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  • Erika
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    WOW theres no longer something incorrect with "omg" "hehe" or despite. the reason he says those each and all the time is by technique of the fact he likes chatting with you. frequently adult adult males i be attentive to dont deliver smileys to in lots of situations yet its ok i meen whats so undesirable approximately that? good!? Take it as a compliment that your exciting to talk to. For Realz!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell him. I had a guy friend who was weird but straight and that just made it even more weird. I told him about himself and now he watches it.

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe you find him weird because he actually listens to what you have to say? Did you ever thing he really cares about you? besides whats wrong with being different, it gives personality and character.

  • 1 decade ago

    well he may be gay or he likes you and he is acting weriod around you because he dont no how to act when he gets around you ....just tell him he needs to cut the crap that its annoying and he needs to grow up .. that it is just a saying of words

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You cant change ur friends, either u like them for who they are or they dont. You can tell him what you dont like about them though, if they decide they want to change it, its up to them, if they dont you have to learn to deal with it. After all he IS your friend right?

  • 1 decade ago

    yep hes gay alot of peaple for alot of their life dont know it even if they dont look gay there might be hints ur problem is a hint.

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