Im sad and down, could anyone there say nice things to me like love and friendship.?

Dear Friend,

I am a 52 year old mother of 5 children and beleive it or not feel that way at times myself, as do my children. Sometimes this world is just plain hard to live in and yes the cycle of life seems unsurmountable at times. I do care about you and your existence and feel so sad that you feel this way. Do not give up, there are good people out there and if you have family, let them know how you are feeling so that they can help you and assure you of their love. If you don't have close family, that is really hard for you and I would be happy to help you and talk to you if you need it. And if there is a chance you beleive in God, then don't forget him and pray to him for guidance. If you don't beleive then check it out and see if that can help you. I am sure you are a very nice, caring person by the question you wrote and feel you will make it and be fine. Be careful though, don't let people take advantage of you, go with your gut and take care of yourself. I have had my children go through these same feelins and it hurts me when they do and it hurts me that you feel that way too. Please don't think that everyone out there is so busy not to care. I do, your new friend, Bonnie

Not only do I love you just for being one of God's wonderful creations. But God loves you as well!!! Life is worth living for the suprises it sends us. Some are great and some not so great. But you can be sure to be kept on your toes all the time. You were chosen by God to be born in this world. He has a purpose for your life, you may not yet know what that purpose is but rest assured He does. With some self insight and some prayer maybe you can find a way to feel better about your time given to you. I dont know your name but I will pray for you. And no matter what God will always love you. Remember He knew everything that would happen when He created you and when He was dying on the cross He did that for you! Just think over 2000 years ago He died for you and loved you that much. Find a purpose through Him and He will bring fullfillment into your life.

With Love

Dear Soul: The first person who needs to Love you is you yourself. The most precious gift anyone of us is ever given is our life. Not a gift given by man. Not a gift that can be bought but it is yours. So Love you & know you are important. This world has become so commersialized that people & there self worth often gets lost. Yet each single person is most important. Maybe time to give of your gift of that life of yours, not for money or substance but your time & your smile to those who truly need those things. Those less fortunate. Soup kitchens, youth centers etc. many churches can direct you. Help a child learn to read or just read to them. Help with homework. Serve a hot meal to one who is hungry & cold. Your gift is in you to give & you'd be amazed at the good it can do. Let a person who has nothing know you care & love them & you will get it all back no charge. Take care.

I want you to know that more than anything and anyone else, God loves you. Sounds like you are a little down and out right now but I'm a living witness to what you are experiencing. I've have been so low that I coudln't see my way through but there is power in prayer. Just say a little prayer...if nothing else just say "God help me", he will hear your prayer and he will send someone to help you and befriend you if that is what you need. Things can look so bad until you just can't see your way through but when one door closes another one opens.....start looking for that open door. I'm originally from St. Louis and we had a support group for people with similar problems, there was a group for lonliness called "compassionate friends" and it was held at one of the local hospitals through one of the doctors, it was free and it was so wonderful because we all had the same problem and no one judged us we were just there to talk to each other and some times hang out and be supportive to one another, you should look up compassionate friends and see if there is one in your area..........its a great starting point....I went because my husband of 9 years just dropped dead one day and he was my whole world and I didn't want to go on, it hurt to breathe but I survived....I'm here to tell you that each day gets a little better.......you have a friend in me and you just keep using this forum as support because people do care about you they don't have to know you to care but we do care about you because you are someone that matters and we don't want anything bad to happen to you, anytime you are feeling down just get on and start typing and I'll be looking for you from time to time....Good luck to you and I know you have a great future ahead....don't give up and don't let anyone make you feel bad.....its good to vent when you are feel low.....God has a plan for your life so just hold on and you will begin to see the light....

God bless you

I just got a video on my e-mail that was fantastic. A person

in your similar situation decided to dress nicely and hang a

big sign around him that said "Free hugs".....At first people

looked at him strangely, but then a few took him up on his

offer and as others watched, they too came up for a hug.

Pay it forward....we could all use more everyday. Love

is a universal element inside of most people and although

they don't always express it verbally, it's always there

waiting to be prompted. Get out there and give someone

a big old hug and you'll see. Hope you wake up with a

smile on your face tomorrow.

You may have thought that the world was a dark and cold Then you sign on here and you see some many people that will say pleasant things just to cheer you up even thought they don't even know you..life should not seem so bad now!

write some prose for me to show me that you exist and i will write one for you. just email me okay?!

hope this cheers you up...

Are You Really Sure?

A blind guy on a bar stool shouts to the bartender, "Wanna hear a blonde joke?"

In a hushed voice, the guy next to him says, "Before you tell that joke, you should know something."

Our bartender IS blonde, the bouncer is blonde. I'm a 6' tall, 200 lb black belt. The guy sitting next to me is 6'2", weighs 225, and he's a rugby player. The fella to your right is 6'5" pushing 300 and he's a wrestler. Each one of US is blonde. Think about it, Mister. Do you still wanna tell that joke?"

The blind guy says, "Nah, not if I'm gonna have to explain it five times."

Don't be sad, we all go through these times. Just remember that you are special in your own way and I bet that you are a great person. One of my favorite quotes - " keep your head up hunnie, there are people out there who would kill to see you fall".

Big Hug

Peck on the check

Pat on the back

Now smile big :D

first of all you need to love yourself no matter what other people think and say, once you have that confidence you wont need anyone to say nice things to you for you to feel good inside because you know you a nice, caring and loving person. cheer up!!!!1 smileeee

I'm always sad and down too...feel the same way. Life is so predictable now that i dont even have to wake up to know whats going to happen. I feel your pain! Hope your feeling better!!!!!xoxo

have faith! even if its a little...