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I need a lot of help, please answer! I want to be friends with my ex-best friend...?

I want to be friends with my ex-best friend, Nikki, who told a secret of mine five-years-ago and we just stopped being friends, just like that. Before that, we were practically joined at the hip. We did absolutely everything together. Now, she seems a lot nicer and more trustworthy, and she even friend requested me on Myspace and has said 'sorry' if she bumped into me or she'll say "Thanks Mollie!" if I help her out with any small thing. But the problem is she's one of the most popular girls in school (but that's not at all why I want to be friends with her. I really miss her) and I don't want to seem foolish and embarrass myself. The only way I can think of telling her I want to be friends again is a message on Myspace. But what should I say and how should I say it? I'm so confused! Please help me! Thank you so much in advance!

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  • mjm52
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Why don't you tell her you've been thinking about her alot lately and all the good times you had together. You could mention some specific incidences of some of the funny things or heartfelt times. Tell her you miss those times and would like to be friends again. Either she'll be receptive or she won't, but, at least you will have tried. Good luck

  • 5 years ago

    My recommendation:... If you quite do consider that is love, do not mislead your self or her. Take a danger. You will have to check out asking her for espresso or dinner. Take the danger. Let her know the way you think. Perhaps you each are supposed to be with each and every different. You will certainly not recognise if she's the only for you if you do not check out. The simplest factor I say, do not play video games. Don't "tease" each and every different to the factor in which, such as you mentioned, 'break the friendship'. If she certainly feels the identical manner, then you definitely each could have the possibility to fix any disagreements which cut up you within the starting. But, it's higher to grasp and recognise in which you stand, than without end maintain that suggestion that "it might've been". If she does no longer think the identical manner, then my recommendation is so that you can backtrack bit by bit. Because the day after the following day, if she meets an character whom she needs a dating, your middle can be heartbroken. And that, might intent you to NOT be a well buddy. One step at a time. Act, do not react.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just be friends again if it don't work out move on

  • 1 decade ago

    try calling her. and if she does not answer go to her House

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