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Am I out of love?

it seems like i've been going out on endless and unimportant dates that don't add up to anything. all i can do is linger on girls from my past now. i can't fall asleep anymore. why is it that whenever i want something, i can't get it, and when i get something good, i don't want it? is my heart slowly dying?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    because people want what they cant have.. i know how you feel man really. Ive been depressed lately too. There is a reason for everything man, its up to you to figure out what that reason is! good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    No, you are bored. First off, try to think of the endless & unimportant dates as learning experiences. Who cares if they don't add up to anything. Have fun. Don't linger on the past, that will get you nowhere fast. These girls have moved on and, while it is nice to remincse every once in a while, don't let it take over your life. If you can't sleep, you might want to go talk to a doctor about that. Maybe you are depressed. Work on making you happy, then find someone to share your time with.

  • 1 decade ago

    You've been hurt so much that you can't even bring yourself to try again. I believe everything in life happen's for a reason, all your past relationship's didn't work out because there is something better out there for you. Maybe just maybe you could have fun being single for a while, and when you least expect Miss Right will fall right into your lap and into your heart. You are keeping your own sheild up, let it down slowly but surely do it. We all live and love, and through that we learn. The girl's from your past IS THE PAST keep them there where they belong! You can move on, just have a little faith in yourself, and you will be fine. Good luck sweetie.

  • 1 decade ago

    You are just not over your past relationships. I see a therapist that helps to work out my issues. It's more than someone to talk to, but they are able to bring a different perspective on my situation. You just might have not met the right person. I think your past relationships have taught you to not settle which I think is good. I don't think your heart is dying, you just subconsciously don't want to settle for anything less.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe you have found things too easy in your dates and no challenges are there anymore. You're bored. Try something different for a change than just dating. You may learn to appreciate people for who they are,not for just what you can get from them

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe you just haven't found the right one yet. It seems like it takes a lot to hold your attention, and whomever you get with has to really step up to the plate. Whatever the case is, keep looking and be optimistic.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Try making friends first then dates. Have fun. Don't be so dramatic. Lifes for fun. There's more going on in the world than just dates Try travelling you'll meet heaps of people.

  • I think you are so bored... and yeah.. you're on your way out of love...

    Try talk to your partner about what you like to do and what you like her to do for ya.. I mean.. You so need someone interesting that can make you happy, smile and lively.

  • 1 decade ago

    you are getting impotent .Take some rest ,watch old films like " SINGING IN THE RAIN" and SING ALONG!!!

  • kenn
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    cupid arrow havent found the target yet? position yourself well and let it hit you.

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