Why do the ladies love the badboys?

Girls don't want bad boys that treat them poorly. They DO want good guys who step up and are exciting, confident, and assertive. What makes these "bad boys" to attractive is the fact that they don't ask a girl's permission to exist or live. They don't give off those needy vibes or give the power all over to the women. Women (like men) like to feel sexual and romantic tension. A push and pull dynamic is what keeps things hot. When a "good guy" starts giving women everything on a silver platter, the game kind of gets stale for women. What I'm talking about is guys that "fall in love" after the 4th date and always have to call a woman up. Guys that always give EVERYTHING to a woman...roses, chocolate, presents. Etc. If a woman already has you wrapped around her finger in the palm of her hand...what is exciting about that? A little mystery, a little unpredictability, and a little bit of you that always remains off limits is ALWAYS a good thing. Bad boys keep that fire alive whereas good guys spark it and often let it die. That is why girls often end up with first class ******* that treat them poorly over the "nice guy" because they would rather play with fire (and get burned occasionally) than be bored to tears.

The message here is NOT "good guys finish last". They would finish first every time if they just got their stuff together. To get "bad boy" results, don't BE a bad boy. Just brush up on your confidence, work on your communication, be assertive, and hone your sense of humor. Also, keep in mind that there is a difference between being assertive/mildly cocky and being an arrogant jerkwad. Sometimes it might seem like a fine line, but err on the side of being a gentleman. You should NOT try to put on some act or adopt a persona. Just let the person that you are shine through, but give it a bit of a push in the assertive direction and don't give away all of your power to any woman. That is like letting the tension on a fishing line go slack...the fish gets away. Chemistry is defined by that pushing and pulling, so try to find the middle ground between wussbag and criminal delinquent and you should be fine.

If you have any doubts about what I'm saying...simply look down below my answer and see how many women have validated most of what I have just said. This is advice you can take to the bank.

First things first...you should never change who you are b/c you are only cheating yourself! It's not all women who want the badboys. Wether he is in the nice category or bad one, it all depends on his personality. If he's a great guy then he will attract women. Badboys persona is attractive to most women but in the long run, the nice guy's do win!

If you can find a decent answer to this question, steal it and write a book around it.

Actually, girls don't know exactly what they want on any given day. My wife will say from time to time, "Now, he's my type!" Over the years, I've found out that it doesn't mean a thing - she just finds the guy physically appealing or exciting. But, leave me for him? Nah. I treat her to well and she knows it.

My wife is gorgeous and she chose me over all the bad-boys that she went out with and dropped after a few sizzling dates. I'm no great catch, but I know how to treat a woman with respect and consideration. I had to be patient, but it worked for me.

Don't go "bad". Eventually, nice guys get the good ones. And, the bad boys end up in bars talking about those "glory days"...alone.

Girls are NOT attracted to jerks. I hate jerks. The only way a girl would kind of (not completely) like a guy that's a jerk, is if he was gorgeous. Jerks are not the same as bad boys. Girls are attracted to "bad boys" because they always keep their cool, and they're sexy, and there's a sense of adventure to them.

Most girls love nice guys, though. If you're a nice guy and girls don't like you, then you must be doing something wrong. Maybe you're too shy? Maybe you don't talk to girls enough? Maybe you smother girls?

I don't know. I just wish there were more nice guys like you. They're hard to find these days...

uuuum no we dont! at least i would like someone who is sometimes bad and by that i mean rude but not really a jerk! i dont like meeting nice and shy guys sometimes because some of the time they turn out to be real jerks anyways..like sapplin the gurlfriend(im talkin bout nice guys). We want guys that are very open and not shy cause if they are thats not good if u gonna stay wit them for a very long time

Noooo! Some of us do like nice guys.Those jerks you refer to-I've been in fist fights,verbal fights.Those ladies go out with the 'badboys' then complain cause they get used.I have a hard time being in the same erea with some of those guys,not to mention the various nicknames I've earned!lol.So,don't give up.

Ha you will possibly desire to choose for women who've a bad boy dad for a place form. i do no longer understand yet i went via that area at school for extremely yet quickly as i've got been given to college you adjust and mature, you opt for for various issues. ladies like that are annoying and it continuously comes throughout the time of like their abit infantile and not solid adequate to confirm on a respectable, delicate guy. in line with danger ladies like that have low self-worth and sense as understand they cant get something extra beneficial than that. it relatively is how i felt at school besides. in the experience that your a respectable guy you will entice a respectable woman. a large type of nicer looking woman choose for a extra respectable guy whoisn'tt a bum and has a delicate pastime as they sense appealing and set their standards a sprint larger. Butthat'ss no longer continuously the case there is superb looking women people who don'tt think of they're appealing and finally end up with entire idiots.

I totally fall for the nice guys. You just haven't found the right girl yet. Trust me there are girls out there who just melt for the nice guy. Don't be a jerk just because that's what the stereotypical girl wants.

well dude...the bad guys just come out and let you know that they like you...now the "nice" guys are shy and sometimes go on the right path and want to be friends first but somegirls do go for the nice guys..i do...but most end up jerks

Well, you see we women are very simple ...psych!! I don't know why...to be honest though, both appeal to me. Although, I just like how "bad" boys flirt differently, I don't actually like guys who really are jerks, drugees, etc. I love nice, sweet guys who actually care about how we feel. It's really complicated, but women are world-renowned for that, right?