If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's E-mail? Please help - thankyou!?

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Hello Super Sexy, Thanks for your reply. I am so happy to hear your neck problem is better. Today I had to stay home from work because Nessa woke up ill with a fever. By about 9:00am I was also pretty sick, so we've both laid around much of the day. Sore throat & aches, sore eyeballs, nothing too major. We were well enough to make a run to Biscuitville and get a late breakfast nonetheless. While at home one of the repair people came by and fixed the upstairs sink. The problem with both the oven and dishwasher were both determined, but the man who came did not have the tools to fix. The diswasher's "drain solenoid" is stuck open, thereby letting all the wash water out instead of keeping it inside the chamber for the wash cycle. And as imagined, the problem with the oven is indeed the thermostat. He said they might have to bring a new oven because the cost to repair this one is more than the oven is worth. That would be awesome to get a new one. I've taken down the shelves & vanity cabinet from your new room and have patched the holes in the wall, to prep for painting. I patched some holes in the bathroom as well where an old towel bar used to be that I took down when I moved in (to make room for the over-toilet organizer.) I think a new towel bar in the bathroom will not be needed because I've gotten hooks for towels that hang over mine & Nessa's bedroom door. That also keeps the towels separate for sanitary reasons (not that anybody is dirty, but it is always nice to have a towel to yourself.) I am still working on the organization of downstairs-- Nessa has a lot of toys & art supplies, and I have more books than I realized. I have moved stuff around several times to negotiate what might be the final layout. I think ultimately I will have to get some shelving for the overflow, which I picture being on the wall where the stairs meet, being out of the way of the main living space. The shared closet spaces downstairs are fully organized and I have 1/3 to 1/2 of the space opened up for your belongings. I am particularly happy with Nessa/my room, in fact I can hardly resist laying on the bed everytime I go in there and just take in the sense of relaxation. The pink color has a suprisingly strong relaxing effect. I made some "curtain" pieces from fabric to cover the front of one of the white pressboard organizers, and I might make curtains for the other ones too. I'm going to get another picture frame or too for some of Nessa's artwork and photos, as opposed to thumbtacking them to the wall as I had done previously. It looks neater when the art is actually in frames. Hope to make a trip to Home Depot or Lowe's sometime this weekend. Anyway, there is the update of how the house is going, and I hope you've had a nice day. I guess it is your day off? Well, looking forward to hearing how you are doing. Miss you a lot. Love Pumpkin

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would say..........

 Sorry to hear that you were not feeling well this morning. Hope Nessa is better too. Did you do all that work today? If you did you must have gotten much better. Maybe it was just a little "bug"   Wow, I can't really visualize all the things that you have been doing around the house. I can't wait to see it all though. You are very good at those kind of things....and lots of other things too! 


You can surely finish the rest of it.

SilentJay76 · Answer

Don't EVER post private emails on a public website, man.  What the hell is the matter with you?  Firstly, that's horrible "netiquette", and secondly, people can sue you for posting sensitive information. (I didn't actually read the whole mail, so I hope that isn't the case here.)  And asking other people to answer your own private mails?  Geez... I don't even know what to say to that.

But to answer your question - if I were you (who obviously has no interest in this girl), I'd just tell her that it's over - in a nice kinda way, of course.  Honesty is usually the best policy.

kriskros54 · Answer

If I was you, I would ask your girlfriend to pick up the phone & tel you how her day is going, rather than waiste all that time writing that email.
She seems like a pretty busy person that likes to keep her day full, but giving you an elaborate run down on every single aspect is just too much.

Id reply 

Dear Pumpkin,

Wow, that was a long email? Are you fingers sore>?
You must be soooo tired with the day you have had so far.
Why didn't you give me a call? We couldve discussed your day in person. I love hearing your voice.
Yeh, painting & Home Depot sounds good on the weekend.
Talk to you tonight

Love Boyfriend
SHORT,SWEET & STRAIGHT TO THE POINT WITHOUT HER GETING OFFENDED.

Investor 2006 · Answer

Dear Pumpkin -- hope you don't mind -- I posted your entire email to me on the internet, because I have no respect for your privacy whatsoever.  You won't have trouble finding it -- just do a google search for the unusual name of your daugther in a few days, once Google has indexed the site.  

I won't be needing that room, by the way.  A man shouldn't be moving in with a woman he's not married to and her child.  What kind of example would that set?

Sorry I didn't realize all this sooner.

P.S. -- your emails have no paragraph breaks.  Please work on that.

Katherine · Answer

I don't think you should be sharing emails your GF write with anyone without her permission.  It is creepy and a violation of her privacy.

That said, tell her you are sorry she feels sick and that she is amazing for being able to get so much work done.

single mom · Answer

Just tell her about your day and ask if she needs you to help her with all the work on the house! Sounds like she might need her Mr. Sexy"s Help!!

Anonymous · Answer

She is just letting you know everything thats going on in her life so you stay close. Its just conversation tell her everything you have done and she should feel happy that your willing to share in the same way she is!

cuttie pie · Answer

sorry to hear ur sick sexy but great to hear ur things are fixed well most of them want to get to gether tonight u can tell me about it

? · Answer

umm that is way weird. . i think that she is running your life and you need to put a stop to it because she is clearly incharge of everything. good luck

? · Answer

your boring me with the way to long e-mails try calling instead

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