a friend of mine is looking for her kids father, i know where he is, should i tell her?

You answered your own question. If you know she wants to hurt this guy, then don't tell psychobitch where he is. Domestic violence is wrong even when a male is the victim.

Put it this way, if a bank was being robbed and you knew someone had cash hidden on them, would you tell the robber? Either way, you are taking part in the criminal action.

If you're the friend you say you are, you would explain to her that any bodily injury to anybody is not worth risking never laying eyes on her children again. If he's got the kids, then thats not the way to see them, I assure you. And if she has the kids, then she should just be thankful that they are with her. Those children should be the only concern she has. Maybe she needs to speak with me...I could give her the run down on many different scenarios, most from personal experience. Just best believe I never have and never would do something that idiotic...there is more to life! To sum this up...NO, I wouldn't tell her.

If he has her kids, tell her, arm her with a weapon and wait for the evening news

Personally...unless I was absolutely convinced that girlfriend wasn't gonna *go off * on the baby's daddy...I would not tell her.

actually, you could have fun with this. give her a list of addresses of people you dont like, ex's or something, if she doesnt really remember what he looks like, shell wreck all of them. fix a bunch of history with one game. :)

maybe im just diabolical like that though.

You should tell her, and tell her not to do anything too bad. It wont be your fault if she does. She wants to find him, help her out. She'll probably find him anyways, and if she does without your help, and she finds out that you knew, she'll be extra mad at you.

Hope that helps.

no dont tell her. if you do and she actually hurts him shes gonna go to jail. youll be a better friend if you consider her future

this is actually quite a conflicting question. I would'nt reveal that information.

You should let her find him.Or the police if hes wanted.

Don't say a word to her about it.