What can we do to stop divorce in the current generation and keep our culture remain same?

Hi Rajeshwari.

Its really nice ques to attempt the answer this, all though i decided today , not to aswer any ques as not having mood for that, but really yr ques tempted me to answer this..anyways...

U know, separation is always easiest way to get rid of unwanted or misunderstood relationship ...but it was not so commen in our part of world before just like western countries ..the reason was.."tolerance"...we always wanted to keep it moving inspite of some problems in married life as we had tolerance for our better half..but ..now times has changed , which leads change in mentalty of people.now they dont want to continue if the situation like that.

As per my opini'n its not always wrong also , if u dont have any child , otherwise its crime for hus'd and wife to depart , as child always need parents togather., but also having said that, if u dont have a child then ..satisfaction frm our partner is relavant things, it not sure that, if u change to someone after getting divorce, yr new paertner will fulfill yr expectation .

cuture is always refers to somewhat "past"..as time changes and that leads to change in mentality of people, so mentality plays important role in this not education...so ..i dont think..anyone can do much more in this, but in this cases mostly its women , who suffers more after diovorce also.

Hi,

You have asked a right question.There are simple measures, through which we can curb the mis-understandings & make a family happy. Mutual Understanding is most important between the two, it acts as a guard between both. If there is mutual undersrtanding then couple is strong, then they can win any thing & every thing. Through mutual understanding you can build stong relationships, which leads to love, pleasentness & joy in life, no doubt if couple does not communicate, then also your relationship will be strong & you can continue the "Culture of Our Country" & you can stop divorce. No doubt, if it is 21st century or whatever.

Indian culture is such that it takes every thing on the positive side, its because of this N numbers of invaders killed millions of people here and looted our country.

Even in present day you will find that the person who is ment for looking after the rules and regulation mostly become the real head ache to the normal citizens.

Same thing comes to our home front also, girls are killed for dowery, sex and other exploitation by politician, big landlords and family members.

Do you want to wrap this poor girls in the hands such bad elements? Do they have no right to stand up and fight out such criminals?

There are girls who exploit the present frame work of our govt. They get married, with in one month pack up with all valuables at husbands home and file a case saying that her husband plans to eliminate her and he harasses for dowery. What will you say for such girls? Lot many cases are pending in court where the poor guy is made scape goat for nothing loosing his total hard earned money.

You, cant even thing of such days not only in India but even in any other country in theis world.

Wait for satyug to re enter this world,

Bye

stop divorce current generation culture remain

Now is womens leberation time,b4 men used to work n women used to stay home n take care of d kids n other family members.For centuries women was exploited by mankind.But gone those days ,now men n womens r no were difference,that is y their r more divorce n these days.Women have learned to fight 4 their rights.

The only way to stop divorce is live together / or men have to change together which is not posible.

If this is spread, slowly the trend of divorce changes to '' Non Committment friendship , staying together, with Hai's and not interferring in personal affairs. slowly it turns out to be successful with a bonding affectionate caring during old age , in Limits.

You are good hearted, and that's why this question is asked. All the best

If divorces are stopped by government legislations, more and more murders and suspecious deaths of spouses will be seen. Human beings cannot be compelled to lead marital life when they decided to separate. Forcible reunion results in unnatural deaths of spouses. When either party or both decided divorce, it should not be hurdled.

Most divorces are due to haste/ hurry, improper advice, anger, provocation and parents' pressure. A sensible wife will always try to keep up her marital relations to her level best till divorce becomes unavoidable. If the wife was at fault with her first husband, after divorce - remarriage, she may not adjust with her subsequent husbands also. It is always better to repair and rebuild disturbed marital relations compared to seek divorce to remarry. Husbands too seek divorce mostly without any valid lawful ground, without adjusting/ counseling with wives, if she was at fault. They fail to treat her with love, affection, respect and trust. Consequently they suffer and put wives to suffer.

There is no concept of divorce in Hinduism. Hindu marriages are performed between their souls (not bodies) in heaven (not upon earth) in presence of 330 million gods and goddesses. Indian Government enacted Hindu Marriage Act in 1955 and created a chance for divorce to be granted by secular courts. Despite such legislations and courts' divorce judgments/decrees, their spiritual wedlock remains intact being eternal, everlasting and unbreakable even in future rebirths. Despite marriage with others after divorce, wife continues Ardhangini (half body) of her former husband and he continues her Pati Parmeshwar (Lord).

Christianity and its books also does not allow divorces, for whatsoever the reason may be.

In Islam divorce is the most worst among permissible. In unavoidable circumstances only there may be a divorce.

However the couple should have liberty to divorce if they decide after thorough thinking and consulting their well wishes.

Having criticised the Islamic concept of divorce for centuries, Hinduism and Christianity also accepted it and enacted/legislated the laws.

the only way to stop divorce is for individuals to respect their marriage vows and truly take the whole package......"for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health till dead do us part" without this the court houses will constantly be filled with divorce papers. What a pity!

Marriage is to complete each other not to compete with each other.

The boy and girl entering the marital bond should decide if it is for pleasure or for commitment they are doing so. If it is purely for pleasure; then they neednot enter the wedlock & seek the so called pleasure elsewhere and if it for a commitment/cause for the rest of their lives, they should inculcate the feeling of mutual trust, care, affinity, understanding and temparament. Nothing is impossible - then why can't we keep a relation going unless otherwise threat, infidelity & fear creeps in?

Marraige is performed to share each other. To avoid the divorce one has to respect other. Mutual respect, understanding and socalled education and copying the others has brought us in way crossway.

Education does not mean to hate others, education does not mean intolarance, education gives pride, knowledge and not to boast with eduction.

In my opinion, love, understand and to share each other can avoid divorce.