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shall i wait for him or try to forget him?
i love someone younger one year than me..the problem is i'm working andhe is still studying..he sometimes show me he loves me and sometimes he decides just to b friends coz he cant do anything for me now and that i shall be married if someone proposed and not to wait for him...we r now talking as normal friends but it's too hard for me i cant imagine him a normal person..but that what he wants ,i dont know he still loves me or he is doing this cause he liked someone else..
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You should try to understand that he doesnt wanna disappoint you by having a bad relationship. If he said he cant do anything for you then thats what he means. Would you rather have a good friend or a bad boyfriend? Keep him as a friend.Its what is best for both. If that isnt acceptable then forget about him completely. Dont try to make him go against his will by tryng to be with him when all he wants right now is friends.
- 1 decade ago
I would suggest you to forget him. But let him know that you want just to b friends. Since you are not sure if he loves you or not, it is better to get the facts on the surface than just firing in air. It does not help either way for you both!!. In case if you feel that after he completes his study, he would be in a better position, then marrying with him does not matter, but then there is risk of "ego" clashes. The things seem OK b4 one marries but reality starts after marriage when loves ceases to end...So this is a question of life time and not a temporary solution would help this. I have seen lot many love marriages got broken very soon. So b careful while taking each step and take your near persons in confidence.
- seabrooksLv 45 years ago
properly, i might advise you look ahead to a couple of minutes, and attempt to alter into closer to her. If she takes too long in making acquaintances with you, provide up on her. detect a sparkling woman. and because i'm slightly evil >:) i might advise you're making your self customary much extra. connect some game at your college (while college starts), or do something which will provide you many of interest. Then she'll see that she made a mistake ignoring you. >:)
- kelstarLv 51 decade ago
Too complicated. Leave him alone and find someone new. He doesn't know what he wants right now - dont let him drag you around emotionally any longer.
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- 1 decade ago
well this is my opinion everyone has @the least 1of them in our time ,i think he's just playing games how is it he feels one way next thing you know he want to be friends.Save yourself the heart ache stop letting him play with you try spending important time looking for that person who will give you there all..
