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Do young girls flirting with older men...?

Realize that it might make them feel old?

I guess being looked apon as a harmless father figure beats creeping out young ladies.

-Sigh-

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  • 1 decade ago
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    In their eyes, you might not be a father figure! I have always been attracted to older men. They know what they're doing, as opposed to the younger, less experienced guys. Older men often know how to be an attentive lover, instead of being selfish. Someone who wants to find a match in the bedroom may look into older men to find someone with alot of control of their bodily functions. Then again, young girls, like to push the envelope sometimes just to see how far they can stretch the age difference. It's the, how many men can I really attract phase. If the girls are that young, that may be all it is. For me, it wasn't. I was always blind to age difference. If you're on the same page, you're on the same page!

    As for... now, when I'm old enough to understand the opposite of the young girl thing... as in... I am an older woman now, I do have to say, I understand feeling weird when younger men look at me that way. I just keep repeating to myself one thing when that happens...I GUESS I'VE STILL GOT IT! That's nice to know when you start feeling old! Feeling reassured that you're still attractive after piling on the years is a nice relief!

    Maybe the younger guys & gals flirt around with older men & women to give us self esteem. They may not really be interested, but they may find us attractive for people closer to our own age. Have you ever seen the movie American Beauty? It's got one of those older/younger things.

    Keep smiling! You're right about thank goodness they're not creeped out!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I am a younger women dating an older guy he's 45 and I am 21 I am not with him for his money as I have enough to support myself. I also don't have daddy issues my father and I talk frequently and go out to dinner weekly, for me there is no age it's the attraction and the chemistry I mean don't get me wrong I can't see myself attracted to a 70 year old man right now. Some women just find age and experience sexy. Not all of us out there are gold diggers or have daddy issues just some of us really like the fact of knowing that we are with a man and not a boy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Some young women love older guys. My friend is 24 and she is with a 41 year old man. Strange?? They seem happy. He has money and she has...well, she's 24.

  • 1 decade ago

    As I've dated older men before, I know that the truth is that older men have come to accept who they are - flaws and all - and don't have all of the conflict younger men do.

    The down side, however, is that they usually have demonic ex-wives who have turned them into committment-phobics.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Some girls feel safe with older men and don't think about how you are taking it. Get over yourself old man :>

  • 1 decade ago

    the girls want a sugar daddy and the guys want eye candy. not necessarily does it make the man feel or look old it is quite the opposite. Being with a younger woman makes them feel younger because the sex is better and it makes them feel that much younger and then they start looking a little younger.

    Source(s): studdies have shown it...read up on it...
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it depends on the age difference.

    if it slike 30 yrs apart uh no, if its like 3 to 8 then yeah.

  • 1 decade ago

    At heart, they're exhibitionists

  • 1 decade ago

    Doesn't bother me! I wish it would happen more often! But then... I'm a rather "sick" sort anyway!

  • 1 decade ago

    Some are Innocent, some love tormenting us, and enjoy the attention.

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