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Am I to excited about this girl?

I had a split with my finance about 6 months ago. I had dated a couple of girls since then. They were nothing special, fun to hang out with, but I felt nothing for them.

Recently though, I was at a party with all of my friends, even my ex-finance and her new boyfriend. Strangely I felt ok with it, because I knew that he was just as crazy as she is.

Now for the unexpected part, for some reason a girl I have known for 4 years and I made a connection that night. We were never really close friends just members of the same group. Somehow the stars aligned and I saw her in a new light, and she seems to have seen me in a new light. To make a long story short, we ended up fooling around that night.

Now I can't stop thinking about her, we talk on the phone now. But I am afraid that I may be thinking way to fast. But she has all the credentials of a great girlfriend. She is beautiful, has a good job, wants kids someday, funny, and fun to hang out with.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It sounds like you are in a great situation. I would enjoy the time your having, don't rush, as you'll only have these beginning experiences once and why rush them? Who knows? As you get to know one another better, you'll continue to build on the feelings you have. Try and preserve what your feeling as long as you can, even forever, but you must take care not to do anything that will bring shame or bad memories later on. Good luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Geez man...lol...read what you just wrote everyone only read it like you were not you. If you want to have a chance for connecting with this girl then stop with the sex stuff so early on and get to know her. I mean, like you say, in her new light. You are doing everything backwards. I know the sex feels good doesn't it but if you don't do this in the right order you are only setting yourself up for yet another fiancee break up. So, what would happen if maybe you backed off the intimacy for awhile...I mean you don't know her that well to be intimate in the first place, so why try right now.Instead let get to know her...all of her ...her good side and her bad side before you get too la la about oh she likes kids, she's beautiful has a good job etc. Lets get to the depth of her and then,,,then, if you still have a connection the intimacy will happen naturally and ya know the ultimate benefit? No more breaking up with fiancees because you just never quite got to know them the way you should have....Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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  • Molly
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You're not going too fast. When love hits, it hits fast. That's the nature of the beast.

    It sounds like you have a good thing going. Don't let silly fears stand in your way.

    Go after her. Love is not easy to find. Especially the kind of feelings you have for HER.

    Good Luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    All I can say, is TAKE IT SLOW!!!!! No matter how exciting things may appear right now, believe me, slow it down! Been there, done that, just enjoy everything and always be honest with her, please? Have fun and good luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    she seems like shes a nice girl. ask her out and see what she says. just remember that you shouldnt make the same mistakes as you did with your ex fiance.

  • 1 decade ago

    so what's the problem/ it sounds like you found someone you like and is worth your time and attention. take your time in terms of beginning a relationship but you have every right to be attracted to her and to think about her. it sounds to me like you're on the right track.

  • 1 decade ago

    you really good at writing plot for a romantic....Why won't you consider a switch in career ..perhaps a writer ...18 and life to goooooo

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't see what the problem is... ???

    Go with it. Tell her how you think about her. Tell her how good you think she is for you and just let things happen.

  • 123
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    AWW thats soo sweet and cute

    gud fo u!!

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