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Is it okay to have an affair with your teacher?
Cha so I've had some things going on with my teacher outside of school....10th grade...whatcha think he is 24 im 16?
13 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hope you aren't serious...if so then that teacher is going to end up in jail (or at least out of professions where he is in contact with kids since he doesnt seem to know how to act approprately) and you will end up in therapy.
No matter how good it feels, or how special YOU feel because of this "relationship" please know that it is firstoff immoral, next illegal, and finally, abusive. He's abusing his authority and the natural trust and respect that students have for teachers. He's taking advantage of your age and inexperience and typical teen-age self-esteem issues and beefiting from it in a rather disgusting and selfish way.
Run, dont walk, away from this relationship and this man. You might think, well he isnt hurting me and I have consented to this relationship. However, my darling, at 16, you arent ABLE to consent to such a relationship, not developmentally and not in the eyes of the law. You probably cannot begin to understand the consequence of this relationship later on..why? because you are SIXTEEN! What feels good now, aint necessarily good and you run a risk of suffering some problems later on related to this. The only right thing to do here is to report this situation to the appropiate people in the right environment and to try to stop this from happening to other girls. I would say tell your parents first, but some people's parent would be so hurt and angry that things can get out of control and be handled inappropriately. If there's a way to tell your parent(s) with a third party present (counselor for example) you might want to take advantage of that. And things will proceed from there.
You might want to find someone you can talk with about this situation, just to take care of yourself.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Definitely do not have a relationship with your teacher.
Right now, it may be love to you and him but I would bet that it is just lust. Not only is your teacher committing statutory rape, he is not living up to a certain standard he has agreed to in the teaching profession.
I know you must feel as if I am against you, but I am not, I am against this man/boy taking advantage of you. Even if you really do love him, can't you wait till you are out of school so you do not jeorpardize his career? I would not think much of a teacher who tried to have any relationship outside of school with a student. If you really like this male, you would get away from him because while you could ruin his career, you could ruin your career as well b/c what if the two of you do go out and it is found out that you were in tenth grade and him a teacher, he could be brought up on rape charges and lose his position as a teacher. Just to let you know, you could have a law suit against him and the board of education.
- bombasticLv 61 decade ago
This teacher should not be showing intimate interest in you Stay away from him at all costs. Your ages might seem close, but this is unacceptable because you are underage. He could go to jail. It's not unusual for children to have crushes on their teachers, but teachers are adults who have a duty to be responsible and trustworthy. I am warning you that If you are foolish enough to get involved with your teacher, you will both live to regret it. Keep your mind on your studies.
- Anonymous5 years ago
i'm undecided why you have been going for extra math or spanish help rather of English, yet in lieu of the seriousness i will only forget approximately approximately your spelling. in the event that they have been doing those issues able the place a student might desire to work out, you have finished surprising to tell the correct. do no longer tell your acquaintances; that only finally leads to stupid gossip. you likely do no longer want to communicate to the teachers approximately it, the two. And it rather is fullyyt your determination no count number if to tell your mom or no longer, nevertheless no longer a stable concept in my opinion.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
well thats messed up. 16 will get u 20. i hope ur at least gettin an a in that class for polishin the pole.
- 1 decade ago
Uhmm..can you say..robbing the cradle?! That is illegal in more ways than one. You need to end it now. That is disgusting that a grown man is involving himself with you, espcially along with him being your teacher. End it before you get caught.
- AngelLv 61 decade ago
Its wrong and its illegal..
Wait until you are done with school and see if you still have feelings for him.. just wait until you are a little older and out of school.. you will get him into a lot of trouble if you are with him now..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
you're a jailbait... you might want to remind your teacher that.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
BRIE YOU ARE NUTS!!!
is he cute? go for him before he's taken