Some advice on an ex?

Forget about her she's trying to have her cake and eat it too. She is just being manipultive. I am a mean person if I really wanted to break off contact with her next time she called wanting to get back together I would tell her no b/c our break up was the best thing that ever happened. That will piss her off enough to leave you alone.

I think that deep in side her, she loves you. She found some one to cover her pain from missing you and now it is hard to brake up with him. I take it that she is a nice person and does not want to break his heart either. I think that you should move on and let her be. If she was the one that originally broke things up then let her go. If you really love her then you must wait for her to make up her mind. Don't get your hopes up, just continue living life as if this past event never happened. Hope this helps,. Will.

she was drunk. she wasnt in her right state of mind but i believe ur true feelings come out when u are drunk. she probably does miss you. she just doesnt wanna upset her boyfriend. and she has been calling you tons. so here's the thing. she misses u and she wants to talk to you. and she calls because she wants u to kno shes thinking about you. you wouldnt call someone if they hadnt crossed ur mind. you know?when she's ready to let you know the truth, she will tell you. but until then keep ur options open, because the best way to try to stop thinking about someone, is to talk to more people. stay busy.explore ur options. remember u broke up for a reason. stop trying to repeat the same cycle over and over. change ur number if you have to and move on babe

i hope you feel better....

I think that you have to lay it on the line for her. Shes not thinking about how you might feel and is being very selfish keeping you hangin on this way.If you can't say it face to face I think it might be ok in your case to send an email . Just tell her how her actions make you feel and let her know that you need closure in order to move on. If she's happy with her new b/f , that's fine but she must respect you and your feelings. You have every right to expect that from her . Sorry you are feeling so bad ..... take care : )

This woman is a very unstable person who wants to keep you as the "joker" in her hands just in case things start going the wrong way in her life. Please don't allow yourself to be played in her little game because eventually you will be hurt very deeply and she would not be responsible for your pain because you are the one who can say NO and get on with the business of living "without her". I understand that you care about this woman but you need to also care about yourself so try very hard to be led by the truth instead of being led by your emotions which can be very confusing and uncertain.

I did it to my ex-boyfriend so many times! Why? Because I knew he will be concern about me. He loved me like nobody ever love me before! I was so immature then. I knew that every time that I sneeze he will be there to give me a tissue… So stupid and selfish of me. To be honest with you, just talk to her and let her know that you two had the best relationship that anyone could ever had, she needs to move on, and so you too. Sometimes we don't want to let go something so beautiful. I'm married now, I love my husband but I still wonder sometimes what’s going on with his life. Silly but truth

you answerd ur own queston. You said that you need to move on and you do. If she still loved you then she wouldnt have bean dating that other guy for so long. Take my advise you sercily need to get over this girl and move on to beter things. Not many people stay with there first love forever.

GET FAR AWAY FROM HER! She is playing head games with your heart and doesn't deserve your time. She is only dangling you around to mess up your life with any future women. She may also be doing this to show her friends her power over you.

She is confused just as much as you are. The only reason she is in the other relationship is because you haven't given you a reason not to be in that relationship. Do you really like her?

well...a drunken mind speaks a sober heart...mayb she knows she loves you, but youz cant be together because of "reasons" its always gonna be like that, esp. if you she was ur first love, or if u were her first love...but in time if its meant to be it will happen..let her kno that its wrong for wat she is doing, and that you dont like that...you shouldnt get your hopes up until shes Single and doesnt have anyone else...until then just talk as friends, but if u kno how she is, its better to just avoid her..everything happens for a reason, and if its meant to be, then it will come back...